We appreciate your participation in our forums, but there are certain discussions which we feel are not appropriate for our public forums and threads which consist mainly of complaints or gossip involving other people are one of those subjects, and your thread here qualifies as such.
We’ll be closing your thread and we hope you understand the reasoning. In the future if you feel the need to discuss matters involving other individuals I’d suggest that you keep our site etiquette policy in mind and make use of your personal journal rather than our forums.
This isn't where you get in touch with the admins, I'm afraid. They've just made it harder and harder to get in touch with them...someone'll have a link with more direct access, I'm sure. (Sorry that I don't have it!)