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Yes, I'm a pedophile

:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Oct 11, 2008
To many of you, this isn't news; it is, however, to quite a few, including some people who have come to know me better over the last few months.

This is not about whether lolicon should be tolerated, and it's not about whether being attracted to children is morally bad.

My complaint is secrecy and maintaining anonymity.

I have met a lot of kind and open-minded individuals online. I hope that, at the very least, the rest of you won't hate or shun me.

Over the last few months, I've gotten a surprising number of notes and comments from people who have congratulated me for announcing it fearlessly. Part of the reason why I have not tried too hard to keep it a secret here is because I have felt sufficiently assured that my identity has not been given out.

Nevertheless, I wish it did not have to be this way. I wish it were no different than admitting to being homosexual, in light of the increasing amount of tolerance thereof.

I understand why some people would be concerned, and I have to accept that it's not something that is going to change.

A subscription was purchased for me, in part because I am afraid to have my personal information associated with this account.

tl;dr It's frustrating living with this secret.
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:iconmykel:
mykel Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008  Professional General Artist
:lock: Merry Christmas.
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:iconnami-chan13:
Nami-chan13 Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
:O I thought this thread got locked.
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
It was. Someone must have deemed the reason for the lock stupid.
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Depressperado Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
waaaaaitttt, someone congratulated you for coming out as a pedophile. really?

also did you just compare homosexuality to pedophilia?




godDAMNIT internet.
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
People congratulated him because it's a tough thing to live with and being able to admit it to others (since he obviously did to himself a while ago) is a step toward getting through it, unlike the people that repress it for years and act on it.

He compared pedophilia to homosexuality because people need to accept that pedophiles (as in people sexually attracted to children, not the ones who rape them since that's not always the same thing) don't chose to be sexually attracted to children just as homosexuals don't chose to be attracted to the same sex (and heterosexuals don't chose to be attracted to the opposite sex for that matter). As long as someone doesn't act on those urges and doesn't look at real child porn they haven't done anything wrong.
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:iconraminaribcage:
RaminaRibcage Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
You're disgusting.
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:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
And you're just chock-full of profound insight, aren't you? :lol:
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:iconraminaribcage:
RaminaRibcage Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
I don't care, you're gross.
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DavidJCobb Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
And you're an ignorant little twit lacking the ability to distinguish between an uncontrollable urge and an action, lacking the ability to make moral judgments based on logic, instead using your own stubborn prejudgments even when coherent, logical, and factual explanations are provided to disprove them.

To quote a fictional character, "[Merry Christmas] and a happy go to hell."
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
Why exactly? He has an attraction he didn't chose to have, can you really blame him for something he didn't chose? He claims he's never touched a child and I see no more reason not to believe him than for me to believe that you've never touched a child, especially considering most people who molest children aren't even sexually attracted to them.
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:iconraminaribcage:
RaminaRibcage Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR EXPLANATION, THAT'S CREEPY
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
So you really think it's fair to condemn someone for a sexual attraction they didn't chose to have?
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SaiScribbles Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008   Digital Artist
You know, really, come on. If he wasn't a "regular", and was someone who just signed up and posted this you all would have torn him to shreds.
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
Not exactly because I know the difference between a pedophile and child molester. I can admit to having my share of arguments when he first came to Complaints but those were all about certain things he was posting at the time, not about his attraction.

Besides just being a regular doesn't earn my respect, there have been plenty of people that have been considered regulars that I haven't liked. My respect for him comes from conversations we've had, not simply his being considered a regular.
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SaiScribbles Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008   Digital Artist
Really? That's not a factor at all? So Teruchan draws under-aged looking girls, Bleedman draws little girls with their panties showing, and those two are the source of endless mirth and derision. This guy draws little girls in revealing outfits and openly admits to being a pedophile and everyone goes "aww he sho shweet". The only difference I see between them is this guy posts in Complaints occasionally. That he even used Complaints to make personal confessions to a bunch of strangers would be considered inappropriate and mock-worthy if he was anything but a "regular".
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
I wouldn't care what Bleedman or Teruchan drew if they kept it off dA and on sites that allowed such things. lordogreus has a few iffy things in his gallery but he hasn't posted anything like that since I argued with him about it.

I don't have anything against the existence of loli or shota as long as it stays on sites that allow it. It can be used as a tool to avoid the temptation to look at real child porn or hurt a real child (I really can't believe it encourages it seeing as it seems to dull the need).

So I can't speak for anyone else but his being a regular isn't why I treat him the way I do, it takes a lot more to earn my respect than just posting in Complaints a lot.
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SaiScribbles Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008   Digital Artist
Yeah but he hasn't exactly deleted them either. What difference is there between this and this? Pretty recently is also a drawing of Dakota Fanning who did a rape scene in a recent film.

So he's such an innocent pedophile no one can say anything bad about but you still try to censor him?

Well I thought it was ridiculous months ago as I think it is now, here we have some drama queen confessing some disturbing thing and a group of facilitating and enabling BFFs running to his rescue and bombarding every comment that isn't "you're such a brave soul!" with whine.
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:iconbumsy:
Bumsy Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
Why are we still giving this guy attention?
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:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
Because it makes for good drama. =P
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
Someone unlocked the thread (probably because the lock wasn't technically deserved) and people replied. You can't really complain seeing as your reply bumped the thread too.
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:iconrockscorp:
rockscorp Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
what extaly do you understand phedophilia?
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:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
What?
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:iconrockscorp:
rockscorp Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
so you not just a phedophilia you stupid to great combination...
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:icondavidjcobb:
DavidJCobb Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
Or maybe you just can't type coherently.
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:iconflyingfe:
FlyingFe Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008  Professional General Artist
It would be really frustrating, really really really frustrating.

I suppose it's somewhat admitting to being a homosexual.
Paedophilia is such a controversial topic though.

You're fine as long as you don't harm a child, I think it's best not to act on feelings regarding this because it can potentially ruin childhoods.

My boyfriend had a paedophile touch him and his sister when they were little children, and it's just awful the way that it effected the both of them.

So look, but don't touch and you're fine by me.

But wow you have so much courage telling people this, though I don't agree with paedophillia, I applaud you for actually being able to admit it but at the same time keep it a secret.
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:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
I'm glad you understand. :) And you needn't worry. Thanks.
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eMiNaTiC Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
the reason its not the same as "admitting to being homosexual" is because it involves seriously messing up an innocent person's life, ie; someone who is not old enough/experienced enough/informed enough to fully understand what is going on. :|
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:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
:iconcaptainobviousplz:

I relate to homosexuals in that it is not uncommon for them to feel rejected, frustrated, depressed, and angry because of something they did not choose, and I relate to the fact that they may ofttimes have difficulty coming out.
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
It only does that if the pedophile actually does something to a child. The sexual attraction doesn't mean that they're going to rape and it's like homosexuality in that it's not something someone choses, not in that it should be acceptable for the person to act on it.
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:iconjamaru-shin:
Jamaru-shin Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
Wait a minute, if you like lolicon, you're far from a pedophile >_>. If you literally skirt chase little kids, THEN we have a problem :D
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:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
I'm not even sure where that came from, but what =thetifftiff said.
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
You don't have to have sex with children to be a pedophile, you have to be sexually attracted to children to be a pedophile. A lot of people that rape kids aren't even pedophiles because in order to be a pedophile you have to be sexually attracted to children.

He looks at lollicon because he knows real child porn hurts real children.
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Dhabster207 Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
So like after your confession on the complaint forums.....whats next?


god I can't believe I have nothing else interesting to say :|
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:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
We move on and I feel a little better.
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:iconmolepeople:
molepeople Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2008
6 months until it is old, excellent.
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:iconm-tel:
M-tel Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2008
STOP BUMPING THIS PEOPLE IT'S OLD
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TimKai Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2008  Hobbyist General Artist
Who put the bomp in the fomp a roma domp.

The question is why was this thread unlocked? Because it was locked before.
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:iconm-tel:
M-tel Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
Some ill informed mod must have unlocked it.
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
Or the reason for the lock made no sense.
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:iconm-tel:
M-tel Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
What was the reason? Another one of those "drama" locks that were all too common a few months ago?
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2008
Whether this is a joke or not, it is in extremely poor taste and should not be posted in the deviantART forums. Paedophilia is nothing to joke about.
:lock:


She also said something elsewhere to him and I believe in !kombat-unit's counter thread about sexual discussion which didn't make any sense seeing as both threads lack it, especially compared to some threads =Mixedpie, =k-a-t-w-a-l-k, and myself have put out since that have been considered just fine and not lock worthy.
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:iconmonkeyspayforsex:
MonkeysPayForSex Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2008
are you trying to be funny? ..


don't.
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:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2008
No, I'm not.
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:iconmonkeyspayforsex:
MonkeysPayForSex Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2008
k.
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:iconthetifftiff:
thetifftiff Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2008
Why do people think he's joking? Most people who joke about things like this are more like 'hur hur im a pedo guize!'
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:iconbonsai-sama:
Bonsai-sama Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2008
I have not known you very well, so I wouldn't say much.

Pedophiles, mmmm..... I think I'm one. But to only those living in pictures, the little 2D ones. If you're like that too in a sense, I frankly don't give a flyin fuck whether you're a pedo or not. Unless of couse, you're a big asshat.

Telling dA you're a pedo gives me this mental imagery of a single homo shouting, "I'M PROUD OF BEING GAY, HOW'D YOU LIKE THAT? JACKASS!" when surrounded by many homophobes.

Well, as long as you don't try to do any kiddies, I'm fine with who and what you are. I see you loads when I lurk around here, and I think you're a nice guy. Don't worry 'bout stuff like that.
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:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2008
I don't think I'm rubbing everyone's faces in it, do you? I had my reasons for coming out.

It's directed at real children, too, which is what qualifies as actual pedophilia.

I appreciate the comment. Thanks. :)
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:iconbonsai-sama:
Bonsai-sama Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2008
Haha, I guess rubbing it in everyone's face only counts when you said it on national television. Well, everybody have their own fetishes. Can't blame that.
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:iconlordogreus:
lordogreus Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2008
That's true. :)
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:iconwarui-shoujo:
warui-shoujo Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2008  Professional Digital Artist
Regardless of whatever you done... whether or not I condone your past actions is irrelevant... but your painting skillz rock.

And fuck em if they don't want to talk to you- saves you the time of talking to them. :shrug:
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