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eeeeeeeeeep sorry I basically died on you guys :iconuu-plz:
I'm still alive :iconlazywaveplz: sorta...
It's just that I've been having some irl problems as;dkjf;jf</3 You don't have to read if you don't want too ^^" you are definitely not obligated to do so haha.
Anyways, one of the problems I've been having includes me breaking up with my boyfriend... a;skdfj;a s-sorry to bore you guys with petty problems like these//slapped
But I guess that's actually not the worst part ; o ; the worst part is that I bump into him everyday numerous amounts of times because my school is so small and I don't know how to act when I see him. Because I'm actually a person that's easily embarrassed, I try to avoid all eye contact and stuff with him, except it makes me feel like a jerk :c When I asked my friend the same question, he replied "Just wave to him and smile."
...t-that's actually a lot harder than it sounds orz;; Do you guys have any advice on how I should act when I see him? a;fdskj;f
Also, do you guys believe in "just being friends with an ex"?
AHAS;LDKFJA;DFA;DSK;A S-SUCH MEANINGLESS QUESTIONS SORRY TO BOTHER YOU GUYS AMG. my feelings are all over the place these days, especially since I haven't been able to talk to you guys as much or even draw Q OQQ and thank you to my new watchers ; v ; I'm forever grateful ♥♥♥
a-and onto a bit of happier stuffs, if you choose to, you can comment on your favorite fandom/pairings from anime/manga ; v ; I-I'm in the mood to draw a bit of fanart ahaha q v q
Stay healthy and safe everyone and thank youu♥


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alicenpaiHobbyist Digital Artist
A-ahh I hope you will feel better soon! Fae, you've been so kind to me; you're a beautiful person; keep your head high :iconplzhug:
I wish I could help you better. ; u ; I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been hurt like you have, but I have been hurt by others before, and I know the pain will eventually subside, even if it will never completely disappear. And through all this, you'll become a stronger person, because I know you will; because I know I have. u wu
//HIDES BECAUSE OMG I SOUND SO CHEESY BUT I MEANT EVERYTHING I SAID (((┏(; ̄▽ ̄)┛
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uwahhhh thank you so much Alice<3333 * 7 * a;kljdfsaljf;adf;ajf;
ahh such a late reply OTL :iconmanweepplz: this was buried at the back of my inbox a;fkdljs;//slapped
and awwww thank you so much ; U ; your words have been one of the nicest I've heard<333 I feel much better now, thank you :iconaawplz: <33333 * v * you are truly too sweet as;lfkjda;f //clings onto you forever♥
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Uguuuuuu fae :iconuguufaceplz:
I'm so glad you feel better ; u ;
i see myself as a the opposite of a helpful or sweet person -- im so neutral orz -- but hearing that I am means a lot to me <333 thank you fae ;///v///;
/clings to you more hnnnnngh
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MASSIVE SOBBU
AKJSDHKAJS AMMG MY FAEFAE IS HURTING :iconallmytearplz:
I SHALL KISS YOUR KOKORO ALL BETTER ////TEARSSTREAM
ASKJDHAKSJ <33
Ahh, I would say give it time and go at your own pace! ;A; I always believe everything will turn out fine as long as one has good intentions and eventually gathers enough courage to make it right over time ~ Don't push yourself right now and let things flow! KJASKJDH AMG I KNOW RIGHT SOBBING, SMILING AND WAVING IS SO HARD WHETHER IT BE CRUSH OF EX OR ELDER AKSHDCGFDFGJHKAJDSHA
A NOD OR TILT OF HEAD WORKS TOO ;A; AKSJDFGHFJGHJ //the inexperienced sad waffle //weepweep
Hope you are well ;A; <33

AMG DON'T FEEL OBLIGED TO REPLY TO THIS WALL SPAM OF TEXT
//FLEES
RABBU YOU
<3
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EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEIIIIIIII;;; MEL Q O QQ
AHHHHH OF COURSE I'M OBLIGED TO REPLY TO THIS BEAUTIFURU WALL SPAM UHUHUHU >/////U/////<
and thank you so much for your kind words bby
:iconasdfghplz::iconqwertyuiopplz::iconzxcvbnmplz:
ahh a;sdfka;afja;<333333333333333333333333333 I'm much better now, thank you
:iconsupertackleplz:
let me take you home with me Q n Q a;sdljfk;j//steals you
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slfjsdlfkjsd faechan ; A;
i think it really just depends on you, i don't think you should
force yourself to talk to him if you can't, i think you should wait and see
if time changes how you feel ; u; // if that makes sense at all // sorry i don't have
any experiences with boys /shot ok i'll leave now :iconlazepoolplz:
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eeeeeeeeeeeeeee sakura-chann♥♥♥
thank you so much ; v ; you really made me feel a lot better u///w///u
I'll act according to how I feel from now on; I won't let outside forces affect me too much :iconyea-plz: thank you bby<333333
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KAJHFLKJAH I'm sorry I've never had a relationship so I can't help you that much :iconpapmingplz: but gl ;___;
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ahhhh it's okay bunny♥♥♥ thank you for your sweet words :iconsweethugplz:
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; u ; :iconsupertighthugplz:
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Aw, I don't know QAQ I'm would be one of those awkward people too XD but I really hope you figure out something :huggle: ;u;
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awww thank you so much yumi-chan♥♥ :iconwipetearsplz: I hope I will too :iconsweethugplz:
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You're welcome Fae-chan ;u; I'm sure you will :iconaawplz:
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Awe well I'm sorry you had to go through that :iconuu-plz:

Things will get better, it just takes time. I'd just say for now don't try and think about him too much, I know you run into him but just see him as a stranger. Because letting him see you still have feelings kinda makes him the winner. Show him your strong, and show him what he is missing.

As for being friends with your ex, it's all personal preference. If you want to be friends with him you go ahead. But I found it very hard to be friends with some of my ex's.
It's awkward, feelings seem to creep on you even though you try to control them, and every other thing like remembering your relationship and when the ex is in a new relationship you can't help but wish bad things. (well at least I have)

I hope you feel better soon huni ♥
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:iconuu-plz: t-thank you so much for your advice and kind words ;///v///;
;asdkjf;jf;afdj;fkk ahhhh I really feel a lot better after reading your message Q v Q thank you so much ♥♥ I'll try to stay strong :'>
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:iconyuiglompplz:.........yay!! you do your best

If you ever need to talk, I'm here ♥
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O-OH MY GOODNESS ASKDFJAS Q A QQQ I-I DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS

BUT WAAHHHA SDFKASDJFASDFJ PAPANEECHAN HOPES YOU THE BEST OF LUCK, FAE IMOUTO ASDFJASD SOBSJAKSDFJASDKFASDF
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AHHHHH P-PAPANEECHANNN Q OQQQ THANK YOUU A;SDKJFF; :iconduckyrunplz:
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I believe in being friends with an ex :) It'll come pretty naturally if you were friends for a long time before dating but if not, it'll come just as naturally after you start to move on a little.
I wish you luck in this :) I'm going through a similar (not exactly but close enough that I know your feelings) situation right now so I know how you feel. Cry a little, eat some chocolate, get some well-deserved rest, and when you wake up, I promise that you'll feel loads better. Not enough that all your troubles will be over, but enough that you can start down the path to end your troubles. Once again, good luck! :D
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awwwww I hope that he and I can become friends one day, although it's probably very unlikely given our personalities :iconwipetearsplz: thank you for your advice though! You are too sweet :iconsweethugplz:
and aawwwwww :c I hope everything works out for you :\ I wish the best for you as well bby ^^ ♥
Thanks again for your kind words ; v ;
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I hope so too! It can be hard but I think it's kind of worth it in the end.
You're very welcome >w< Anytime~
Thank you! I think everything's starting to slowly fall back into place. By the end of the week it should all be normal again.
You're very welcome! Best of luck to you!
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:cuddle: sorry to hear that but if you needed to move on - you did the right thing! The only thing I can suggest is to see him as a stranger. Try to forget or go above the fact that he was your boyfriend and greet him like a distant friend or an acquaintance - with time it will be easier of course ;)
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awww thank you! c: I'll definitely keep your advice in mind ^//////^
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;) and don't forget it WILL take some time to get accustomed ;) let your emotions flow for the moment, if you hold them, it'll take even longer
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