Fae-Mothwood

💚 Green flags 💚 ✅ We start having sexytalk and then get distracted talking about awesome video games ✅ He offers to play BG3 with me ✅ I got flustered over something sweet he said that made me all emotional and couldn't find the words and he patiently said 'talk me through it' and listened to me ✅ He sent me a video of his uncle's very cute puppo ✅ He reminded me to drink water when I was dizzy and checked in on me ✅ He told me when he wasn't comfy with a thing I suggested (somno) showing he's okay to be honest rather than say what he thinks I want to hear. ✅ He calls me cute names like 'baby' 'my good girl' 'my sexy slutty little wreck' 'my bratty little spoilt slut' ✅ I fretted that maybe he 'wouldn't like' my submissive side and he said "Are you actually insane?" ✅ He remembers who I was and what I liked when I was 15, but he's also avidly paying attention and learning who I am and what I like now. ✅ I feel like he genuinely cares about me. ✅ I feel safe with him

((Journal entry about me being in the 'talking stage' and it going well.)) It's been a little over a week since my ex from high school messaged me. And. We've kept talking. He's been... consistently caring towards me, sweet. He told me I'm precious. He's okay with it when I have to stop talking in order to look after my kid, he's said my kid should always come first. He's been flirty but also careful about overstepping, I'd forgotten how much he responds to me and me to him. This warmth between us that can be really really naughty and perverted or just really achingly sweet and tender. We had cybersex and part of me worried when he went to get water afterwards that he just wouldn't come back. But, he not only came back and kept talking to me... his first words were to ask how I was feeling. And then to tell me how much he wanted to hold me in his arms. He checked in with me and he made sure I felt cared about, safe, desired, cherished, protected. He... He performed aftercare better