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THIS FETISH IS SO GRAAAAWS by endler THIS FETISH IS SO GRAAAAWS by endler
Well, this goes for three main things:

-People who complain about different fetishes, especially the ones that are JUST SO ICKY.

-People complaining about any particular kink at all. Yes, same as the fetish, but this just annoys me to no end so it needed to be said twice. For both what people to with others or what they fap too.

-People complaining about a relationship that they don't approve of. You all know the main one I'm talking about...though others are still being frowned upon too even though we all thought they'd be cool after, you know, we left the 1950's.

Really as long as it's consensual between people or if it's legal, you really shouldn't be caring about what they decide to do in their me time. Why is that, exactly?

Well, for one, it's really none of your business. A lot of people try to keep their kinks more to themselves and don't shove it into others faces (and any comments of BUT IT SEE IT EVERYWHERE ON DAAAASSS SO IT'S ALL OVER MEEEH FACE BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW HOW TO CLICK THE BACK BUTTON will be pleeeasantly ignored because, God that's growing stupid).
Yes, they may draw them, and yes, you may have to look at the thumbnails, and yes the bigger thumbnails makes it a little harder to miss but you don't have to throw a giant hissy fit over it.

Another is when you keep going on about the fetish you are honestly making yourself look just as sick as you believe these fetish-bearers are; just considering that you cannot stop thinking about them doing their business.

Another is you don't even know these people and I bet you wouldn't be happy if they suddenly got obsessed with your sex life and started screaming 'EEWWWWWWW HETEROSEXUAL VANILLA SEX IS SO GROSS YOU SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED TO DO IT ANYMORE 8C'.

Another is, guy, it's not your fucking business. It doesn't matter if you find a fetish yucky or if you find these two certain people together just as yucky - again, if legal and/or both parties are cool with it, just let them go at each other. No one's forcing you into the room and tying you down so you have to watch.

We don't care what goes on in your bedroom. Stop raving over what happens in ours, thank you very, very much.

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Disclaimer: It's common sense that a lot of people care if fetish art on Deviantart go against the rules. I don't see what's wrong if it doesn't break any rules though. I'm not a fan of seeing characters blown up like a balloon but it's easy enough to just ignore it, even if it comes in waves. Is it really that difficult to do the same for everyone else?
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:iconfastfootwarriors:
FastFootWarriors Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2018
Ok can I debunk this. I don’t give a sh*t what you do in your bedroom. See that’s in your bedroom, away from me. My problem is seeing things like “I have a nazi fetish” see that concerns me, you can keep that to yourself, I don’t want to know there are people that think the people responsible for over 6 million deaths are hot. Ive lost enough faith in humanity already, and already want to be wiped off the face of the planet so I can be happy in death knowing I don’t have to coexist with those people, and people in general.
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Marmimow Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2017  Student Digital Artist
This should apply not only to strangers, but to friends too. Sick of friends asking personal information.
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hxstile Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2016
especially when one dood just talks abt his sex life abt having random hook ups and ppl already look down on him??? like stfu??? his life isnt urs m8 and all he wanted was neutral or "be safe" comments from it wtf
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IEMEl Featured By Owner Edited Nov 15, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Fetishes aren't all over the internet, but I can't say the same for sex. Sex is litterally everywhere, even on sites where it shouldn't really be.
Whether it be just a mild reference or straight-up porn, you can't avoid it. 

And as an Asexual I personally find sex disgusting. This is the only reason why I don't like seeing it continuously shoved down my throat like it's harmless. 
It's not. I mean, how would you feel if, say for example, you watched a loved one die in front of you when you were a young child... For the rest of your life, you don't want to ever see another graphic dead body.
Maybe even blood can trigger you.
Then what do you know? Some asshat starts flapping pictures of heavy gore, corpses, and guts in your face. You're not gonna take that lightly. You try to ignore it but it's continuously being thrown around.

What people do in their private time is theirs and I have no problem with it, but when you start boasting about how your fetishes are the bees knees, I will not hesitate to slap you up the head. No one cares about what you fap to and what makes you horny. Your sex life means didlysquat to everyone else that isn't your partner/s, yourself and one or two horny teenagers on the dark side of the internet. 
Keep it to yourself.

And I don't mean to upset you but the ignoring attempt is the oldest in the book and I'll tell you now, it doesn't work. Period.
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FastFootWarriors Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2018
Your existence is appreciated remember that
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FastFootWarriors Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2018
Thank you, somebody gets it 👍 hello decent human it’s good to know you exist that makes me feel a little less suicidal.
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Zvarika1 Featured By Owner Jun 12, 2015
I've gotta agree.
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IEMEl Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
This is an old comment, but thanks anyway.
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Timewap Featured By Owner May 21, 2014
Nope....still don't agree.

Deviantart is NOT THE BEDROOM!
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Gavin-The-Bunny Featured By Owner May 15, 2016
Who gives a fuck?

Is it a place to whine and spew your whining complex either? No, so why are you whining?
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FastFootWarriors Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2018
Because we don’t want people shoving their fart/nazi/vore/inflation (to name a few) art down our throats. I know we should stop whining, but that’s because WE DONT CARE IF YOU THINK PUMPING SOMEONE UP IS HOT. Do that in your own free time in your own personal space, not for all the internet to see and cringe. You see I wouldn’t care if this wasn’t the sh*t that made me feel even more depressed and shi**y than before. I want to die because I feel ashamed to coexist with some of these people. I would be more happy in death than on this planet with them.
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star-dream Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2018
i don't think you should stop whining, at all. i'd say da needs a better way to select what kind of art you want to be seeing and enforce proper categorizing. so that people with their own business be satisfied and other people with their own business be satisfied as well. thumbnails with very simple textual description of what is hidden. you choose what kind of things you don't want to be seeing. and it is stupid to wish to suicide because some people have strange choices, there are also people that have different choices, that you might like and enjoy. and there is you. which is the fundemental of tolerance - you have your freedome, happyness, your world, possibilities, they have theirs, you stay away from each other, who gives a damn what they are doing? and worrying about 'right' and every single worry about the world, every single thing that could possibly go wrong, when you could be focusing on making a life for yourself, getting to truely know yourself and life, realising your dreams and enjoying a little. isn't that what life is about after all? thats a way to cure your depression. that also makes one less problem in the world. life is what you make it.. stop thinking a little bit, and give your dreams some chance...
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zcorpio0209 Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
THANK YOU. 
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Timewap Featured By Owner Dec 29, 2013
But DA isn't the bedroom.
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Gavin-The-Bunny Featured By Owner May 15, 2016
But DA isn't DeviantWhine either.
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FastFootWarriors Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2018
Yeah but this is not some weird porn site. It is a site for artists to share their art as they improve, not for commenting about how a pony wetting themselves in a diaper gave them a huge boner. I couldn’t care less what people do in their own personal NOT public spaces, so long as it’s not shoved in front of me wherever I go, looking for people who actually want to improve and follow their passion.
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EdmondRad Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
AGREED
AGREED
AGREED

People who judge people for what they like in bed are the worst kind of people, imo. :stare: 
Besides, these people (much like myself) aren't doing it to please you or for shock value. We enjoy and it's our business. :\ 
It reminds me of the BDSM argument, how people think it's abuse when it's not, lol fail.
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FastFootWarriors Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2018
Omg. When I say I don’t want to see fetish art, I mean I don’t want to have some random mlp character pissing themselves in a diaper in my feed, while I look for people who care about their art and improving, and following their passion for art. Whatever you people with fetishes do, go right ahead, just not where anyone and everyone can stumble across it to their disgust. Also the thing with BDSM, that argument is dumb, the whole point is you ask for consent, im not gonna say “eww no it’s abuse eewww *whining*” so at least we agree on one thing.
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FelixtheFailure Featured By Owner May 8, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
This. I never really got how people were so bothered by the fetishes of others. There are plenty of fetishes that definitely don't turn me on that have a huge presence here, but even when I see them my reaction is no more than, "Egh. :S *moves on to next picture*"
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FastFootWarriors Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2018
You see, I have a problem because I already have lost all faith in humanity, and hate most humans. Then this rolls along and I go from: depressed-> to: kill me I no longer want to live on this planet I will be happier in death I don’t want to coexist with a species that thinks nazi’s or diapers or farts are hot. JUST SHOOT ME ALREADY I DON’T WANT TO BE HERE (im crying right now I’m not being edgy and emo-> Ok emo-> but im kidding I don’t want to be alive right now it just brings me more pain than happiness) so yeah. Not all of us can shrug it off when our brain starts saying “ok yeah your going to walk into the kitchen, grab a knife, and stab yourself because there is no longer a reason to live, and you will be happier dead. Now go”
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Sugar-Glitch Featured By Owner May 6, 2013
Well hey, maybe if they KEPT what they DID in their bedrooms PERMANENTLY in their bedrooms, and no where else BUT their bedrooms, without bombarding every single inch of the internet with their sickening desires and fetishes, so much to the point that it's unavoidable, then hey; who cares about what they do?
Sure, let them do it! As long as they keep their fantasies to their self, I could care less; but when such disgusting infectious pollutant filth is constantly being forcefully shoved in my mind, I have a right to talk.
"If you don't like, don't look". <--- Is that really an option when this stuff is everywhere?
Clicking the back button? Really? Errrr DUUUR, do you actually think we stay on the fucking page, STARING at the image? You've obviously never despised content to such a point, in order to understand things from our point of view.
OHH! That's right, you DO! You despise us... But guess what? You're not ignoring us now are you? You made a fucking badge, about us instead. Hmmm, not so good at IGNORING, are you? Why not just delete the comments you get, eh? It can't be THAT hard.
Do us a favor, and practice what you preach, little boy.
You just proved your self a complete and utter idiot.
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LadyClassical Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
La dies THIS
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DaiKunz Featured By Owner Nov 24, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
It ain't a surprise that this toddler is banned :meow:
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EdmondRad Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
People draw/like/watch/enjoy porn. Gay porn. Straight porn. Lesbian porn. Pedo porn. Necro porn. Fetish porn. Etc. (this goes for sex also)
Fucking deal with it already, ffs. And for your information, I am full of fetishes and I can assure you that fetish art/video/talk is not everywhere. 
Unless you purposely go to a site like Rule 34, any porn site with the fetish tab, or click a picture that implies fetish content, then I don't know what the hell you're even talking about. 
You have to be looking for this shit to find it. 
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CuryPotato Featured By Owner May 6, 2013
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PandaSennin Featured By Owner May 6, 2013  Hobbyist Filmographer
I think the only idiot here is you little girl.
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DarkHorseArtie89 Featured By Owner Feb 21, 2013  Student General Artist
There is no such thing as a perfectly "normal" sexual fantasy or fetish. Everyone's got some pretty weird ideas of what's arousing.

But fetishes are a lot like opinions; everyone has one and they think all the other ones suck.
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FastFootWarriors Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2018
Im not saying there is. Yes they are like opinions, and some opinions are better kept to yourself as they can be harmful. You see sometimes words and actions have consequences! See when I see one I go from depressed to “yep I will be happier dead than I am alive at this point I don’t want to live anymore I want to cry (sometimes I DO) and shoot myself in the head because this species is the most awful thing to ever grace this planet.” See when I see someone who has a nazi fetish, I see “hi, have some 6 billion deaths and more torture and animalistic testing, and this human who thinks those responsible are hot” some people have experienced awful things, and these fetishes may trigger something. Lets say someone witnessed a murder at a young age (some people have just sayin’) and are now on DA. Oh hey they stumble across a gore fetish art, and all the awful memories and scarring images are triggered again.
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DarkHorseArtie89 Featured By Owner Mar 8, 2018  Student General Artist
Extremely late response here, but anyway...

I think that stuff you mentioned is really questionable to be a fetish, let alone to be called a fetish.

When I think of fetishes, I'm thinking of people who say, prefer certain body types or find a specific kind of outfit sexy. People who get worked up over the fact that you don't like exactly what they like need to get a grip on reality.
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EdmondRad Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I agree that fetishes aren't 'normal' and people will be judged for them. Yeah, that's just how it is. But, I don't regret anything. ;)
Also, wtf, people think other ones suck? I'm a really open person in-bed, except for a few choice things, but that doesn't make me hate them or people who like them. o: 
It's just that I don't enjoy them. That's really weird; I didn't know people thought like that.. 
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DarkHorseArtie89 Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2013  Student General Artist
Yes, people do think like that. I honestly feel the same way as you do about other people's fetishes, hell, even with my own fetishes, I have some limits as to how far things can go. But I'm not going to slam people and mock them over something like a fetish. It's kind of pointless, especially when we really can't explain how we have fetishes in the first place.
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EdmondRad Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Wow, that's incredibly rude. :o It's odd for them to judge other's fetish when they too have an abnormal fetish. I don't know, it's just weird and yes it's very pointless. :lol:
And, you said you know a lot about fetishes and stuff, are they a mental disorder thing? Because, of course, they're not normal. 
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DarkHorseArtie89 Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2013  Student General Artist
Really, what I know about fetishes is mostly built around some wild mass guessing and general observations from various people and myself.

If you were, for example, look at my gallery, you'd probably spot a lot of fat/inflation art stuff. However, my favorites has very few of these kinds of things. Personally, I don't find a lot of what's out there to be of my fancy, so I have to make it myself. The issue is that "why do I draw this and like this?" One answer is based on childhood experiences and finding "creature comforts" or wanting something. Wanting a chubby girl to squeeze and cuddle with is probably based on the sheer amount of insecurities I've had in my life due to abuse and family problems... Especially given that unlike most people who share my fetish, I did not watch a lot of cartoons as a kid.

Really, you can't exactly explain why people have their fetishes. However, you can explain as to why some people treat them as a bit personal.
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EdmondRad Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah, I'm into BDSM (and other stuff that I don't share for other's would obviously find disgusting), but there's a lot of things personally that can explain that, I think. 
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DarkHorseArtie89 Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2013  Student General Artist
There usually is. :nod:
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EdmondRad Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
It doesn't make me a bad person, though, right? Just a little... strange?
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ZeShazzi Featured By Owner Jul 20, 2013  Student Digital Artist
You sir know what you're talking about
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DarkHorseArtie89 Featured By Owner Jul 20, 2013  Student General Artist
Well, being someone who is at the bottom of the society ladder, has a disgusting fetish that gets posted up onto DA, and frequents the internet a lot and listens in other things, I do have some "experience" about this kind of stuff.

But you know what's funny? Even with my fetish, there's a lot of stuff I don't really like that gets made involving it as opposed to something I make on my own. But even then, I just let people do what they want, so long as it truly isn't illegal (although I think I mentioned it somewhere else, but the more vile sexual predators actually don't go through with places like DA and FA). And as dumb, retarded, simpleton, and idiotic as it sounds, "don't like, don't look" actually works, especially if people have the mindset of there being no such thing as bad publicity... The more who cry about how vile and gross a particular fetish is, well, the more attention you draw to it and more than likely, the more people who might be interested actually join into it.
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ZeShazzi Featured By Owner Jul 20, 2013  Student Digital Artist
True, about the attention-drawing. I think it's silly to moan and complain about things whilst trying to make people pay less attention to them.
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DarkHorseArtie89 Featured By Owner Jul 20, 2013  Student General Artist
It's pretty counter-productive. Besides, nobody's really forcing you to look at the stuff that's been posted (although this can be said about anything out there).
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ZeShazzi Featured By Owner Jul 20, 2013  Student Digital Artist
Indeed. I generally think it's wrong to complain about things that can simply be ignored.
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PurpleLuverForever Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Thanks you. I've actually been having this Argument since forever about Incest, actually. If one of the family members can prove they're infertile, why shouldn't they be able to have sex?

And clearly, if you read what I said at all, you'd know you can't use the "It hurts the Offspring." Argument on me.
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AngryBliss Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2013
But the strangers are not keeping it in their bedrooms lol.
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endler Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
Gay people are having sex out in the streets?!

This will make many girls pleased.
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AngryBliss Featured By Owner Jan 11, 2013
probably.
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darkwee009 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2012
My metaility? Don't tell me about your fetish. I really do not care what tickles your fancy....
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Fuiron Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2012
Soon, the human species will run out of excuses to stick their noses in each other's business. Then, we will become the Ferengi, and begin to actually DO business.
I am sure I meant the above to be deep, so if you can decypher the meaning...well, you're a genius.
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kalathepooh Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2012  Hobbyist
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Astrall99 Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
There is nothing here.....
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