Thank you so much for the condolences and words of support, it really means a lot me, even if I can't reply to each and everyone of you.
My family and me is still busy with preparing for the funeral next week.
At the end of July I'll be taking Mom on holiday to Fuerteventura ( Canary Islands / Spain ) because it was Dad's favorite island and we want to go there and visit his favorite restaurant to commemorate him. And she very badly needs a break.
My grandparents lived in the same house as my parents. Mom had been caring for my grandpa for years before he died in 2021. Then spent 3 years caring for grandma, who only kept whining, complaining, ordering Mom around and pitying herself, not bothering about how Mom or anyone else felt. After grandma seriously hurt her back and had to go to hospital she had to be sent to a nursing home in December 2023, because she couldn't climb stairs and be left alone anymore ( she's 97 years old! ) and Dad simultaneously had a heart attack, had to be