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Pokeapache Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2009
I'm only 15 too. I've never kissed a soul, not like that. <: It's okay! 15 is still young, as far as I'm concerned... it's best to wait until you find the right person.
catiescarlett Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2009
Hon, don't worry; I didn't have my first real boyfriend til I was 17. There's no rush - though I know why you feel like there is. I remember being 12 and all my friends having boyfriends before me. I'm only 22 now, so it wasn't that long ago. But trust me, the right guy's worth waiting for. Take it from me. You know that first boyfriend I got when I was 17? We're engaged now. :) I know the last thing you want to hear is "when it's right you'll know," but it's a truism for a reason, trust me. *hugs* Good luck, ST!
catcrunchies Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2009
It doesn't matter if you don't have a bf at 15. I'd never had a kiss until 17, aside from dares. Just wait for someone special and it'll be amazing.
Super-Sonic-Tornado Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2009  Student General Artist
I'll be 16 in october and i've never had my first kiss either :shrug: and i've only had two boyfriends, one lasted 4 hours, the other lasted a week :blush: but i don't look at it as missing out on anything, cuz i have a bunch of friends, more than half of them being guys, and i'd rather have a bunch of best friends than one specific boyfriend =)
blagakhsandi Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2009
i've never had any boyfriends throughout high school -- look at me, I'm still breathing! trust me, you'll find him one day.
TANGERINE-clocks Featured By Owner Nov 23, 2008
i want to favorite this a million times.

er, i can relate a ton.
my best friend is a twig and boys fall all over her, and she acts like it's nothing.
and every time she gets asked out i tell myself i need to stop eating for another day. to be as skinny as she is.
because no one likes me like they like her. every boy i've fell for had fallen for her first. :/
i'm not even chubby, i'm just not super skinny...

but this secret read my thoughts.
LindsaySeddon Featured By Owner Nov 22, 2008   Photographer
Maybe this girl is....not interested in GUYS?
dd3953 Featured By Owner Nov 18, 2008
wow. am i the only person who thought maybe the ST's friend is gay, and that's why she's said no to all the guys who have asked her out?
Silas-Quinn Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2008  Student Traditional Artist
Better to have a real first kiss than one that doesn't mean anything.
xXBloodRedAndBlackRo Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2008  Hobbyist General Artist
dont worry. Im 16 and never been kissed. And the only Boyfriend i have/ had is online/dumped me for my best friend then turned gay.

Its all over-rated. Youll be fine :hug:
Gokiburogal Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2008
Why on Earth does every teenager nowadays consider love to be some kind of race?

Girl, face it: love is not when some "good one" comes and asks you out. First kiss at the age of 15, 14, even 12 does not and will not make you a better person in any way. Neither will the fact of having dozens of boys in the wings waiting to ask you out. It would only bring jealousy, like in the case of your friend.

Try to understand, that feeling the urge to have a boyfriend or kissing just because everyone else around does is pretty immature. Love with come, eventually, don't force it - it's not a contest!
bubblyduckey Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2008
I'm effin 23 and I've never had a boyfriend. I feel you pain hun.
imgnepc Featured By Owner Oct 13, 2008
15 was my magic age... everything happens when your 15. Just you wait...
tigerpaws Featured By Owner Oct 11, 2008  Student Photographer
hey, don't rush it!! just cause your in highschool doesn't mean you need a boyfriend or a first kiss, whoever told you that is crazy.
rebak43 Featured By Owner Oct 9, 2008   Photographer
Just because you're in highschool doesn't mean you need a boyfriend.
And I got my boyfriend a year ago, a month before I turned 15. So maybe it will happen soon for you too.
crimson-moon8 Featured By Owner Oct 7, 2008  Professional Photographer
I'm 17 now, and I had my first kiss a few months after i turned 16.
The kiss was good, i'm not gonna lie.
But I wish I could have shared it with somebody I was inlove with.
You can't rush things like this...when the time is right, you'll know <3
SusantheMartian Featured By Owner Oct 7, 2008
sweetie, im 18 and out of high school and i have yet to have a bf or a kiss. age has nothing to do with it, its how long it takes to find the right guy. you'll get your boyfriend and you'll get your kiss. you're only 15. you have all your life for those things, dont fret about it now.
amorecum Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2008   Photographer
i didn't have my first kiss until the second semester of my junior year
....after dating the boy i was with at the time for six months

i can understand your frustrations but
be patient.
time comes when it will.
don't rush it.
DragonMistress333 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2008
15? Slow down! Guys really aren't the best thing about high school
RC28Leo Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2008
Hun, I've been in your position. I ponder about this sometimes. I'm pretty close to your age too and I've never had a first kiss. (:

I've been in the same situtation, I knew some friends who had their first kiss when they were 10 or 11. And when I told them I never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone, the first thing they said was "OMIGAWD, you NEVER had a first kiss?? I'm liek sew embarrassed coz I have to tell ma friends I only had my first kiss on 6th grade and they had it in pre-school but OMG!!!11TWOTHREEFOUR!!".

It almost crushed me into pieces at the time... but now I've realized that the thing that all those girls had was never love.

Try to put it this way: it's best to feel real and reciprocrated love, thus have one of those passionate kisses from the movies (it really happens!)... pretty much late... than dating a whole bunch of guys that'll leave without asking after dating you for a month, and meanwhile, sticking their tongues inside your mouth in a horrible and disturbing way. Believe me. Don't rush. Love will come when you're least expecting. ;)

And by the way... everything in the world has beauty. Some see it more than others. No one can supposedly affirm who are the "bad ones", just because not a lot of people fall for them. They might have a fantastic and stunning personality, even if they're not uber-sexy-holy-jesus-christ-omfgah-so-super-good-looking. The first time I had fallen in love for real, it happened with a not so attractive guy on the outside. Not that it usually happens. ;P

Voodoofish Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2008  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend either.
sundark182 Featured By Owner Oct 2, 2008
Hey, I'm 16 and I havn't had my first kiss yet either, don't stress. :)
not-in-my-head Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2008
You're actually pretty young, so don't worry about being such-and-such an age and not having a boyfriend. Besides, looking back on the years I spent as a teen, high school boys are pretty overrated. They don't get all that interesting until you're a little older.
Lunarluna Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2008
I know how you feel. I just started high school this year and have never in my entire life had a boyfriend. I console myself by saying I'll find one in college.

Hold on,
- iNkY
AleriaCarventus Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2008  Student Artisan Crafter
Hey, I'm 16 and in grade 12... and I don't think I'll ever have a boyfriend - and I don't give a damn!
NoRegretsJustLessons Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2008  Hobbyist Writer
ok im sorry but things like this shit me. ur YOUNG. try and live life.
ClaudiaVice Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2008
Don't fret! I know a LOT of people who had never had a boyfriend or a first kiss by age 15. Just you wait; it'll probably happen sooner than you realize.
ChibiDyne Featured By Owner Sep 29, 2008
nothing says you SHOULD HAVE a boyfriend right now.
before you can love someone in your life, you have to love yourself.
if you don't love yourself, no one else can.
misskitty17 Featured By Owner Sep 29, 2008
nah... i didn't get my first kiss or my first boyfriend until i was 16.

don't rush it hun, thats not something you just want to give away. wait for the guy you think is right. =3
tassel Featured By Owner Sep 29, 2008
No, you don't. You're being impatient. You're only 15. Yeah, sure, some people have sex by age 12, or 14, or have kids, or have boyfriends and girlfriends or have gay sex or..whatever.

Does that mean they're ready for it? Absolutely not. You have so much time. You're not even out of High School yet. And it's a complete joke to how absolutely amazing College is.

Wait for it. It gets better.
RayAndEdward Featured By Owner Sep 29, 2008  Student Writer
Gah. I'm that person. I honestly don't know why. I'm not pretty at all, but for some reason I guess I'm likeable. But I hate that they can't just be friends with me. I wish they wouldn't like me. and I hate that people say I should be greatful for it and they get so mad at me for it. :(
Muramura Featured By Owner Sep 29, 2008
You want to be someone else because they can get a date. theres more important stuff to life, be happy with who you are
blckdsh Featured By Owner Sep 29, 2008
Honey, I'm a college freshman. I'm 18 and I have haven't kissed a boy or had any boyfriends yet. Nobody has asked me out yet and I'm okay with that. Don't sweat it dear. I also believe that waiting helps. You're still young and you've still got a lot years left in you. Relax.
Zer0Hawke Featured By Owner Sep 29, 2008
I didn't have my first kiss 'til I was fifteen - it's not a big deal. At least if you wait, you'll end up kissing someone you actually are in love with, or at least are great friends with - it's gotta be far better that way.
SmootHope Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008  Hobbyist Photographer
I turned fifteen last Sunday and haven't had those things either.
Steffie-yan Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008
everyone else here is right; you're still only 15, you've got plenty of time.
i have friends who are older and are in the same boat; actually i'm 18 and i've never had a boyfriend or my first kiss.
LykaiosIsadora Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008
I know tons of people who haven't had their first kiss, first date, or first boyfriend and they're in college.
Don't feel bad about it <3
TailoredAngelsHorror Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008  Student Writer
you're only 15 sweetie...I know it seems like you're weird for not having a relationship yet but it's really not that big of a deal. I'm 19 and have stayed single and a virgin, all by choice. People are always really surprised when I tell them, but also impressed. I'm my own person, which a lot of girls I know who dated young and a lot can't say. Be an independent woman, and everything will work out.
konekobru Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008
i understand you, but don't feel it as an obligation. i did, and i went through a lot of bullsh*t. so, let things flow at their own time =)
VairaSmythe Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008  Hobbyist General Artist
Haha, don't worry dear! I just got /out/ of high school and I had my first kiss, it's nothing to be ashamed of!
Zeaphra247 Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008
Hey don't worry. Most of my friends are seniors in high school and only one of us has a boyfriend. We are perfectly happy without them. Sad to say that a lot of guys in high school that seem great you find out aren't or that you just don't feel ready to date them(or anyone else) even if those great ones ask you out.

My mom did not start dating until after high school and she was perfectly happy with that. She had the whole guys thinking of her as thier friend in high school and it was the most fun she ever had with guys. No pressure to not act silly around them and the had a ton of fun because of that.
kaychan1234 Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008
I totally get it, but you dont necessarily have to have a boyfriend or a first kiss by the time youre in high school. Ive only been asked out twice, one I turned down, the other one I said yes to but it wasn't until my sophomore year. It'll be okay :]
lefrenchninja Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008
I'm fifteen next month, and I've never had a boyfriend either.
That being said, I do have an amazing girlfriend. xD (yay for bisexuality)
Be patient, the right guy'll come along eventually. Most are really annoying at this age, anyway.
truepenny Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008  Hobbyist Writer
Maybe she just hasn't found the right one yet, even if they are "good." She could still feel lonely and unloved and jealous, because she hasn't found anything real yet.

She will and you will too one day, and regardless of how many guys are after you, only one will matter.
flamemetalalchemist Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008
I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 16, so just be patient
Otterbane Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008  Hobbyist General Artist
I maximized the secret to see what was under the giant last line. You're going on stereotypes here luv, not everyone has or has to have a boyfriend or a kiss by then. Don't worry about it. If your friend is just having boyfriend after boyfriend then tossing them away like crap, it shows more about HER than you.
KyttiKyra Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008
ST, you're good to go. I've never officially had someone ask me out and I didn't get a first kiss/bf until I was 16... my friends set me up. If they didn't do that... I'd prolly be a much happier person because not only did it not work out, it was more or less a fiasco of rampant hormones... I'll happily switch you places.
LittleArtemis Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008  Student General Artist
Give it time. Ive never had a guy ask me out. My first kiss? I was 15, at a youth group, and this guy who had bullied me when I was 12 came up and kissed me to make my BFF at the time jealous. He was also apologizing for past mistakes.
Second; random french kiss from a girl at a mall...who I later asked out myself.

Sometimes you need to make the first step. I did, and the girl told me she'd give me a chance if her boyfriend and her did not work things out.

Also, you have years ahead of you. Be glad people have at least tried asking you out. Most guys are disgusted by me and don't even try.

I'd be envious of you!
baby-alien91 Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2008
The grass is always greener...

While I don't get approached by very many guys, I prefer it that way. I would hate to deal with constantly having to turn guys down, hurting their feelings, because I just didn't have any feelings for them.

The thing is, when you date someone you don't really love, it really just hurts both of you.
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