First, read this:
DeviantART and its mods can officially kiss the fattest part of my ass. It's one thing if various users don't care whether or not a trans person or a neutrois person or what have you can pick a valid option for their gender when asked. It's another thing entirely when you're in charge of the place, you're asked about it, you're then told why it's a problem, and then you piss all over the complaining party and can't even be bothered to apologize for not getting it.
This, on top of some depressingly inconsistent moderation (porn and hate art, anyone?) and excruciatingly irritati