I'm not sure if its post wedding blues or something like that but my creative muse has completely fucked off. I'm sat myself in front of my laptop with the intent to colour or draw or DO SOMETHING!!! but nothing i started and i just went...yeah...uuugh...no.
I don't want to force myself but it feels like i need to otherwise i'm never going to get started again.
any advice out there for these road blocks?
Yup i had my wedding it all went well in some areas and others not so much:
where it went well: The high tea buffet and hog roast was delicious and everyone enjoyed it. my friends all came together and helped my set up the reception with tonnes of time to spare and even helped clean up afterwards! the party went great and we all had a game of Unstable Unicorns. there are many a picture of a blushing bride sitting in the corner of the room just playing pokemon but that's besides the point! The ceremony was beautiful and our first dance was to Metallica!!!
things that irked me a little: the music bugged up last minute where we had to use CDs
I'm not nervous...WHO SAID I WAS NERVOUS??!!
Seriously this whole wedding thing has made me realise why its more common for people just to shack up together and "Live in Sin" sorting weddings are a pain in the butt!! I plan fetes and stuff for a living so its no massive problem booking stuff and getting it organised its the bit that involves me that has me generally going 'Meh that'll do' and "Really why bother?"
There should be a "traditions and stuff expected at weddings" brochure or something when you start planning cos there were so many little customs i wasn't aware of! Stuff like the bridesmaid's job is to help out i just assumed the