So, unfortunatly it has come to a point where I have to bring this up.
My friend's call me someone who's being social, and quite the calm one. But I have some problems with connection with new people sometimes and can even encounter smaller anxiety issues of talking to new people.
Why do I bring this up? Well, during the last month, Ive for some reason been bombarded with messages of unknown people seeking contact with me.
Personally, I dont mind at all if you just wanna say hi or something like that. That's not the case here. I always welcome a friendly gesture.
But Im sorry, but when some notes have recently started with things like
Can you draw my stories?!
Hi, please respond to this when you get this!
If it is from a unknown person that Ive never spoken to before, then it will throw me off. Just recently I had a note from someone that I dont remember at all having contact with, explaining that he was moving accounts for some reason.
First of all, I have said it many times before. I do NOT take requests. If you dont take the time and understanding that I dont have time in RL to draw art for free for someone random who's never talked to me before, then you cant expect me to show respect for the issue at hand.
Secondly guys, Im not saying that you cant contact me just for a friendly hello or something. But I wanna share this problem from my perspective aswell. It is sometimes harder then expected for me to just give a fair answer due to it can actually stress me out sometimes. Especially if Ive just had a month where Ive been bombared with notes like this.
Thanks for listening