You know what I find confusing? All these people saying "being trans is bad", and "being gay is worse". And that "the lord will hate you if you decide to be such a person". My argument is this: my best friend in the entire universe in trans, gay, and still goes to church every Sunday, and even gets after me for saying "oh my god" or "I swear to god" So if he can be all that and still loves himself, I think people can shut the hell up. Who's with me?