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You know, some people are just fucking assholes. Seriously.

I'm having a little experience with one such asshole on eBay right now. I sold a pair of jeans on eBay to someone in Europe.

The person asked if I could do standard shipping so that the shipping wouldn't be so much (as I quoted in my auction, 20$.) I told him/her/it that yes, I can do it down to about 10$... So off I went, and sent out the item. The post office representative told me that it would take up to 6-8 weeks to get to the person.

Okay, whatever. I knew that. Canada Post can be rather slow sometimes. Okay, okay. All the time.

So anyway, I message the person back, and tell him/her/it that it would take 6-8 weeks to get to them, just so that they knew. I don't want to leave people hanging. And quite honestly I just expected someone from overseas to expect something to take long to get to them.

That my friends, was my first mistake.

So I never heard from this guy/girl/thing again. Until now. On Fathers Day I go into my Paypal account to take the winnings from my auctions out and put them in my bank account. I notice a dispute. I go in.

This person decided to pick a fight with me about how long it was taking to ship to him/her/it. Now, first off, Fathers Day wasn't exactly THE GREATEST DAY FOR ME EVER.

(Sidenote incase you guys didn't know: My dad passed away in January this year, so thats pretty much why.)

After a few crying fits and trying to figure out how to resolve this and trying to figure out why this guy was accuse me of fucking him over, I decided to calmly message him back saying, in short, that I already messaged you about this, saying it would take long, and I'm sorry for any inconvenience but if you want me to credit you back I will but I can't control the time for shipping and they are coming.) Throughout the dispute, buddy said that I never responded to any complaints.

First off, it'sa ctually hard to respond to any complaints WHEN I NEVER GOT ANY! Infact, that day was the first time I got ANY messages from this douchebag. I sent him THREE MESSAGES : Two to his email (one with the original message I sent, and one saying the same thing I said to him in an ebay message, just incase he didn't get the ebay one because apparently he has problems reading his messages if he didn't notice my first message.)

Well then. NOW today (two days later) I get a message from Buddy saying "Impossible, something from the USA took a week."

OKAY FINE WHATEVER! But you told me you fucking wanted the cheapest shipping, I TOLD YOU IT WOULD TAKE 6-8 WEEKS! READ YOUR MESSAGES.

(I'm sorry, but unless the guy sent it through UPS, or Fedex or Insane US Post shipping amount, then I highly doubt Buddy got it in a week. And, also, thats USA. I'm in Canada. And Canada Post is different. *flails about*)

I told him that basically again, blah blah blah and a little snottier this time (I really didn't mean to, but I'm fucking tired of being nice to people.) told him that I was trying to do him a favour and that he requested cheaper shipping, and that I cannot control the shipping! Maybe the person used a different shipping method or something, I don't know! Unless he wanted to pay 50 dollars through Canada post and like 80 through UPS then hey, sorry! But no, you wanted to spend like 10 bucks!

My GOD some people are stupid. So needless to say, I really don't feel like deal with this dick and if he leaves me shitty feedback then fine but I'm basically respond saying he was impatient and doesn't read his messages. I'm sorry, I just really, really, really had to bitch. I just can't believe how annoying people are. I'm honestly tempted to give him back his money  to shut him up because quite honestly, I don't give a shit now because I'm out of debt and the only reason I sold anything on eBay was to get out of debt.

So yes. That's my little bitch. I hate it when people bitch about something but don't nkow the full story about anything. I mean I never got ANY messages from this guy, first off. Secondly, I was moving and I'm sorry that shit happened in my life that I had to move out, and thirdly, I try and be a nice decent person, I give him a fucking favour, and they don't appreciate it. So maybe next time, I'll say NO SORRY I'M GOING TO CHARGE YOU 50 BUCKS TO SEND SOMETHING OVERSEAS SO THAT WAY  YOU CAN HAVE IT THE NEXT DAY!! HOW DOES THAT SOUND TO YOU??? *flails more*

Some people need to get thier heads out of thier asses and wipe the shit from out of thier ears.

I'm also on my period right now, so yeah. That doesn't help. XD

Needless to say I doubt I'll be selling on eBay too much after this. *groan*...

I'll have a better journal eventually, I just really needed to vent.
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You can all come to my aaa-partment ment ment ment ment eh eh eh eh eh eh!

*someone slaps me*

Well I'm here, well.. a good portion of my stuff anyway is here! I've moved over a good portion of my things, but I still have to move over the big stuff on Saturday, while the remaining piddly things I'll get over time.

After several toe stubbs, "ouch this is very heavy!"'s, "o my god I'm really hot right now!"'s and things, I'm really loving it! :D I found it really amazing the other day when I was shopping for....APARTMENT THINGS! Yes, this was super exhilarating for me, as I picked up glasses, some food, and the like. I was just so happy that finally it felt like my money wasn't being wasted! I was so excited, buying all these things!


So yes, this is really nice. Of course, I miss being at home, I miss my family, but I think it's about time I do this. It'll be a little tight for the first bit, since I'm still trying to pay off the rest of my credit card and things, but it's amazing how, when you move out, you suddenly put a halt on shopping for useless things (I consider this to be more clothes, art supplies that I already have a bunch of, more perfumes, things like that) and you start penny pinching. So yes, everything so far is really nice. We've just been moving things in gradually and hopefully everything will be fully moved in by the end of next week.

After everything is all settled I'm seriously going through all my clothes. And for seriously getting rid of them. When I was hanging them up I never realized I had...THAT...many clothes.

As for art, I've...well because I've been busy I haven't gotten the chance to finish anything and post anything up, as you can probably tell, so once I'm all moved in everything will back to normal :D I did do some drawing but nothing really too crazy or anything. I might try and get some things posted later on. Also, my free originals of art trades offer is still up! So if you would like the originals to trades that we've done just lemme know :D Note me with your address and I'll get to sending them out for you :D I also got my hair cut too...YAY! :D It's finally not annoyingly long in the back anymore XD

So yes, Ive been busy! I'll be definately spending a lot of time outside this summer on the porch, doodling and things :D And also, for anyone who is doing a trade with me, I'm still getting them done, don't worry :) Until I get everything moved in I won't really have too much time to do artsy things. But I'm sure you guys don't mind, I was art dumping there for a bit anyway XD

Anyhoo, thats all for now, as I have to go to work soon :D
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So there I was today, looking through my notes when apparently, I got a policy violation.

My picture calicokatt.deviantart.com/art/… was apparently in the wrong category.

Everytime I upload my drawings, I use the same exact category. Under the anthro, unless it's something else.

BUT APPARENTLY, I WAS WRONG!

That's right, everybody. Melanie and Taylor, despite having dog and ferret thing ears, and cheek fluffs, are now, apparently, humans. I'm sure that you all know that hardly ANY of my characters are human. In fact, I don't think I have a single human character. (Granted, I understnad thier ears aren't really visable in this one, but they've never moved Taylor or Melanie before but now it's a problem.)

And apparently, I also painted this drawing as well too. Which I didn't. Because it's a coloured pencil drawing.

*rolls eyes* So they decided that they were right, I was wrong, and moved it.

Wow, DA. WOW. I can't believe how anal DA is about this categorying shit. (Personally, I HATE categorizing, it's just a pain in the ass.) considering the fact I see atleast over 50 peices of artwork in the wrong categories each day.

(Because we all know that shitty ass emo myspace photos are NOT fashion photography and/or stock.)

But apparently mine, which was in the right category, was actually in the wrong category. I'm honestly not going to put up a fuss, but it's actually really annoying. Because apparently the one that moved it is a DA moderator person.

WOW DA WOW.

Anyway, everyone, just so you know, today is the day, that I am officially moving out! :D So you won't be hearing from me for a few days, unless I get things moved in quickly :D So I apologize a head of time for lateness in replies to messages and other miscelleneous things! Please don't expect replies to anything until atleast Thursday or Friday, I should have my computer and stuff hooked up by then :D Anyhoo that is all for right now and I'll see you all later on in the week and things! :D
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  • Reading: Three To Get Deadly by Janet Evanovich
  • Watching: Dr Phil
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Hey everybody!

Well, just incase you haven't noticed I finally got around to deleting my journals - I had too many of them and it was just pointless to keep journals here that people don't read and that take up too many spaces. Altho, DA likes to make it REALLY EASY TO DELETE JOURNALS. ITS REALLY AWESOME TO DO IT MANUALLY ONE BY ONE.

(just incase you didn't know, that was sarcasm.)

And plus, a lot of my journals were really stupid and therefore I've been meaning to get rid of them for the last god knows how long. I just had some spare time today so I thought I'd do that since I'm not doing anything else right now.

Anyway, I'm so excited! It like... like...four days I'm officially moving out!! This is really exciting  and I was actually REALLY HAPPY to pay rent for the first time!! It's just, like, this really awesome accomplishment!! I have a lot of stuff that I need to take over but most of it I think is pretty much grab and go. I have some clothes in bags that I need to take over (...three..big garbage bags full..and...a basket... I think it's time to stop shopping.. I also have a dresser full of clothes and a chest thingie full of clothes and...oh god. *thinks* I really do have too many clothes.)  but this is really fun and it'll be good to be out on my own with mein Skwishie! So for the next while I'm sorry if I'm a little slow with messages and getting back to anyone who has questions, and stuff, I promise that once everything is settled then I'll be more productive. XD Anyway, so yes, I'm very excited! Despite all the crap that has happened recently, I think everything is really going forward in my life. I'm even attempting to paint too :D Its not my forte... but it's fun learning anyway :D Also I'm still working on any art trades and things but like I said I've been a little busy so please bare with me :)

Well thats bascially all I have for now, just thought I'd shove a journal in here somewhere... Have fun all!
  • Listening to: Random stuff on iTunes
  • Reading: Three To Get Deadly by Janet Evanovich
  • Watching: Dr Phil
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  • Drinking: miscellaneous drinkstuffs on my desk