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:iconblueivyviolet:BlueIvyViolet posted a status
I swear that if these damn losers keep coming on my page and leave hateful messages about my daughter Krista I just might say the hell with it and deactivate!! I am so pissed off right now its just making my blood boil!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

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:iconvanndra:
vanndra Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I would just block them straight away. If you are like me, you are here for fun and that stuff isn't fun so get rid of it. They are doing it to get a reaction and all 3 are probably the same person. They are the ones with the problem because they must be truly miserable and unpleasant! Blocking is easy :) :hug:
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 26, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
my daughter said the same thing, she also said..dont comment or reply back..which is very hard for me..i am a big mother bear when it comes to my kids...thanks my friend for your support and friendship!!:hug:ss
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:iconvanndra:
vanndra Featured By Owner Sep 26, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Nothing achieved by responding to these trolls. It's what they want, but they hate indifference to their pathetic "games". A much better way to upset and annoy them :) :hug:
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
too bad these idiots don't have a freakin life outside their parents basement! :hug:ss
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:iconvanndra:
vanndra Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes indeed! :nod:
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Shirley-Agnew-Art Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017
I think the most you can do is report them, block them and then hide their comments so that
you don't have to be reminded of them. I think they are just trying to get a reaction from you
as sadly some people on the Internet seem to thrive on drama. I wouldn't send the comments
to your daughter, I think it is one of those times when ignorance is bliss. I agree with your son
though, you can't let these people rob you of something that means so much to you and besides
the last thing you need right now is anymore stress :hug: :heart:
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
I am not going to leave..I was just so upset and I was seeing red...my daughter wants me to send her the screenshots, she told me last night that she never seen this person before...she also said the same thing as you did..don't comment or reply back..thing is it's hard for me to do when someone is harassing my kids...thanks again for your support and friendship my dearest friend..it really means a lot!! Big hugsss
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Shirley-Agnew-Art Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017
You are very welcome Marilyn and I am very pleased to 
hear that you won't be leaving, you would be missed!
I know how you feel, I am very protective of my son and
daughter too, the fact they are adults now changes nothing!
As long as your daughter is ok with seeing this stuff that 
is ok, but she is right about you not responding to it, don't
give them the satisfaction of having a reaction from you
as that is what they want. Big hugs back to you! :hug: :heart:
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
:hug:sss its great knowing that I have such great and supportive, loving friends!!!!
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Shirley-Agnew-Art Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2017
I know how you feel Marilyn, it is good
to have friends who support and encourage
you, that is the best thing about DA! :hug:
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
it sure is!! :hug:ss
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:iconcrazygardener:
crazygardener Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017
Just put a block on them. & report it to DA... & don't reply to any of their crap.  
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
I am going to try and do that but I just see red when someone is harassing or saying anything about my kids...I just lose it..thanks so much for your support my friend..I really do appreciate it!!! Hugs
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:iconcrazygardener:
crazygardener Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017
you're so welcome my friend  :hug: ss
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:iconknighttemplar1:
knighttemplar1 Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm so sorry these jerks keep this up. Hang in there --there has to be a way to find out who is doing it. I'll keep praying for you.Remember-if you decide to quit they win but you do what's best for you! :hug:
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
I am not leaving, my son asked me why should I leave a place that makes me happy..It just made me so upset and angry..I am just going to do what Krista asked me to do and that's just send her a screenshot of it don't reply to the jerks and just report as spam and block them... Even though it's hard not to reply!!!
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:iconknighttemplar1:
knighttemplar1 Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Good-----I know it's hard but that's the only way to beat them at their own little game . :) We're all on your side :) 
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
:hug:ss thanks so much my dear friend, its so great to know I have such wonderful and supportive friends!!!!
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knighttemplar1 Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
My pleasure! :hug:
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:iconbitch0nline:
Bitch0nline Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017
what you really need to do is ignore them and block them every time. They are doing this because they know it bothers you.
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
I was so upset and angry when I wrote that...I screenshot the message and sent it to my daughter...But my son asked me why would or should you leave a place where you are happy and have so many friends just because of these losers.. He's right..I am not leaving so I will just ignore and block them from now on...It's just that I am so stressed out..
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:iconbitch0nline:
Bitch0nline Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017
Your son is right you have friends here don't let anyone push you out. Eventually they will stop just block each and every one and when they see they can't get to you anymore they will get bored. Don't let it upset you anymore
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 26, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
is hard not to get upset when some idiot says such mean and untrue things about my daughter or son..it just hurts me right to the core and then I just see red, thank you so much for being such a great friend!!!:hug:ss
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:iconbitch0nline:
Bitch0nline Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2017
oh I do understand. But they do this because they enjoy hurting others. Don't let them in :hug:
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
thanks again my dear friend..i will try not to reply or let them in!! :hug:sss
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:iconbitch0nline:
Bitch0nline Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2017
that's the spirit :hug:
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Professional Photographer
Who are doing this to you and your daughter?
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
I don't know,,, this is the third time that she has been harassed..the first time she was being sexually harassed, the second time, it was a loser telling me how everyone just hates Krista and what a loser she is and that he was going to post stuff about her here on DA..and now this loser..it's just so hurtful to me that these assholes just won't stop..we tried contacting DA and they wouldn't do anything..it just pisses me off!
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Professional Photographer
Ps. What can I do to help?
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
Maybe write a journal telling everyone about the troll??? I just don't know😢😢😬😬😬
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theresahelmer Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Professional Photographer
When you have a moment, can you take a look of these two journals has helped me a while back. I really do hope they can redirect your attention to matters that brings you smiles and joy.

A Field Guide to Trolls on dAAh yes, the uncomfortable truth.  You see, there is a drawback to become well known and popular on deviantart and that is the Devious Bullus Trollius otherwise known as the DeviantArt trolls.  Every well known artist and no few authors have had their share of these pests; they are widespread, they are numerous, they are a pain.
Trolls come in a few flavors, but they all share a few things in common:
They enjoy kicking people down just for the 'lulz'.
They enjoy annoying people just for the 'lulz'
They are bulllies.
However, beyond that baseline, we have a few different flavors of troll and here they are:
Lulz Troll
The Troll who does it 'just for the lulz'.  These trolls go after well known pieces, DDs and popular pieces and drop a mean, rude, or crude comment just to piss people off.  The Lulz Troll feeds off of anger, hostility, and payback comments on their page.  They like to watch their pageviews go up, even if it is
How do you deal with haters?I got this as a question on my Tumblr, and I felt I could share my thoughts here as well because it seems it's something a lot of people can relate to. I hope this comes to helpful to any of you guys reading.
I’m certain there are people who dislike me. Some I come to know through whisperings because I have eyes everyyyyywheeeeere.
However, I don’t feel the need to acknowledge them or do anything about it unless they are causing any real harm, especially to people I care about.
There is a popular quote that I like referencing for this topic, which gets the message across in a charming way:
You can be a juicy, ripe peach and there’s still going to be someone who doesn’t like peaches, so you can either submit to someone’s criticism of you, or you can get on with the business of being your own amazing self who attracts other like-minded people that appreciat
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
thanks for this T...it has helped..alot!!!..I also talked to my daughter last night and she said that she doesn't know this loser and asked me just send her the screenshots anytime someone does this and then block them but don't comment (which is very hard because I lose my temper when someone messes with my kids)..anyway, thanks again my sweet friend!!! xo
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
You don't have to do anything To...My daughter is taking care of it...I just end her screenshots of anything these assholes write to me. Thanks again For...Love you
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Professional Photographer
I am sorry you and your daughter are going through this...I am wondering how are the harassment being sent to you? Where can we view those exchanges? dA wouldn't do anything? why? I am sorry I have so many questions when you are not in a good place as it were. Remember to keep your health on top of the list...
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
Thanks T..you have always been a very supportive and loving friend...these assholes just post shit on my profile page..it's still there if you want to read it, I replied to IT...when my daughter was being sexually harassed..I don't know why but no they wouldn't help her and she just deactivated her account and she won't come back on...these losers even harassed her on Facebook too..
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:iconmortyciahearse:
MortyciaHearse Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017   Photographer
Please don't. And do you know that person who commented or is it some random person trying to get you mad?
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Edited Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
No I don't..this is the second time this has happened..both times the guy said he knew my daughter..I am under alot of stress and I have these jerkoffs saying things..I sent a screenshot of this to my daughter....my son just told me..mom don't let those jerks take away something that is so important to you..just do what Krista asked you to do and then just block them...I wrote this just out of pure anger and hurt..I don't like it when my kids are harassed

You can read the message if you want to, it's still on my profile page!!
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:iconmortyciahearse:
MortyciaHearse Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017   Photographer
Also report it to dA while you can and you can report as spam at upper right too after you report it. That is only if you want.
But this is not ok and I am sorry there are people in the world that act like this...
And I understand, you are mom and protective. Don't apologize but yeah, block people like that.
You have my support.
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
Thank you my friend, I really appreciate it!!!! Hugs
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:iconmortyciahearse:
MortyciaHearse Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017   Photographer
You're Welcome! :heart:
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:iconhearsegurl:
HearseGurl Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017
You're welcome. I am replying with this account but sexual harassment? I thought dA did not allow that seriousness. That of ALL things they needed to really look into and take seriously. I am actually appalled...
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
I know, she reported it and some of my friends reported him too because of the sick things he had on his page...His first account was deactivated but he came back with a second one..Well my daughter reported it but they don't accept screenshots and told her to let it be seen on her page and when she did that..The harassment just got worse so she just deactivated her account and after she did...He did,..
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HearseGurl Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017
Ugh, humans. :roll:
The worst part is, they ban for less serious stuff and then when you get something that IS serious, they don't do anything about it.
Ugh, I have had it.
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
oh I know...while they wouldn't help my daughter they banned a friend of mine saying he was under age when he is going to be 20...my friend is back on now though because he had a army fighting for him!!!
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:iconambruno:
Ambruno Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
so sorry to hear that
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
Thank you..it's just really bothers me that they say things about my daughter..I am so sick and tired of these freaking lying bullies
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:iconambruno:
Ambruno Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
some people aren't happy unless they are making someone else miserable
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
So true...maybe third time is the charm and then no more..it's just depressing!
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:iconambruno:
Ambruno Featured By Owner Sep 25, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Beautiful
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