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:wave: Hi Everyone!! :wave:

 well after months of waiting, i got a letter in the mail from the hospital for me to go and get physiotherapy!!! i have had physio before for my arms and back and my hip (i cant sleep on my left side at all because it hurts so much!!!) but for my hip it didnt work..this time i'm going to try acupuncture (spelling is wrong i think??)..hope this works this time!! i have been in pain for the last 5 years. even went to a pain specialist (the freakin quack!!) and he says there's nothing wrong with me..and i know there is..i have a pinched nerve in my lower back!!
anyway, my first appointment is next monday at 1pm (my time) cant wait to get started!!!

in other news i am kind of confused and pissed off!!!! i submitted this picture for all my friends by BlueIvyViolet( it has over 100 views and 65 faves) well it was declined???  2 groups declined it..why??? i dont get it!!!

anyway, hope all is well with you all!! have a great rest of the week!!! :hug:s
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Apr 21, 2013  Professional Photographer
My reaction to your reaction is "don't sweat the small stuff", who cares they don't accept your submission, do you know how many groups are there for you to move on to? Never upset yourself and waste energy on something like this...i personally do not want you to, because you need to take care your health, getting pissed off is not beneficial to you, so i vote no.

don't get mad, get even. leave the group straight away!
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
thanks Theresa! you are so right, why get stressed out..just leave!! :hug:
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Apr 21, 2013  Professional Photographer
Ps. groups rather
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
lol,i forget!!! i have such a short memory!!!
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Professional Photographer
M, all i want to see is that you are happy, for right now, i am not "sensing" that all the way from SF Bay Area. You were on my mind last night, i hope you are okay is all...
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Theresa, you are such a sweetheart..thank you!! i'm doing ok..i start acupuncture tomorrow..and as for work..i'm only getting 1 day a week for 2 hrs..so i'm not making any money. i put out 2 resumes and i'm hoping that someone will call. so this and only working 1 day just depresses me a little, my boss says she'll bring me in a couple of days when a girl has her baby but for how long..i dont know.:hug:sss
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Professional Photographer
please take good care of yourself, i am not a fan of acupuncture, but i hope it works well for you. two hours a week? hmm...at least your boss is nice enough still keeping you on, i like that.

take care okay!
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
thanks my dear friend!! you take care too!!!
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Apr 21, 2013  Professional Photographer
Hmm...what group was that? the one decline your submission, let me know?
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
i wish i could remember...next time i submit and they decline..i will definately let you know!!
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Professional Photographer
The bottom line is there are plenty "fish" in the sea when it comes to the groups is concerned here on dA. Find one that suits you well and acknowledge your passion. If it is not a good fit, why stress yourself out, ain't nobody got time for that!! Shoot....!!

Myself for example, last week someone "added" me as a contributor to a certain well established group, i asked them "did i sign up for the gig, if so, i don't recall?! Please help!", the founder of the group said he had no idea and welcomed me in the meantime...Umm...how about a giant NO, please remove my name from the position. He said he cannot help me because he was not the one who "invited" me. I asked him "aren't you not the founder of your group?" "how is it you have no power removing such minor incidental nomination?"

Still he said "SORRY, LADY I CANNOT HELP YOU!?"

So i left the group. I don't need the drama. That's not the reason i am here. As if....
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
some people have alot of nerve..
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Professional Photographer
it takes all kinds i guess...
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
yes it does!! how are you doing? :hug:s
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:icontheresahelmer:
theresahelmer Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Professional Photographer
i am doing well, thank you! My policy is it is okay to have bad days, tomorrow is a new day to bring back the promising positive feelings if i want it...And i do
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
i definately need to think like you my dear friend!!
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Qcazu Featured By Owner Apr 21, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Hello! I hope all is going well with you! And don't worry, some groups are a bit rude and decline some amazing things. Don't let it get to you. I'm sure there are other ones that would love to have it!
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
thank you so much, i really appreciate your comment!! sorry for the late reply!!
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:iconqcazu:
Qcazu Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
you're very welcome! Late replies are fine ^^
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:iconharleezpix:
HarLeezPix Featured By Owner Apr 21, 2013  Professional Photographer
Hi Marilyn!! :wave: As being a "victim" of this myself, I can only tell you that it's because there are so many groups out there that only are interested in certain members work and nobody else!! :nod: They were created for ulterior reasons and not what they are supposed to be as it's more for who you know than what you know!! :(
I'm not saying that this is true for all, but for many it is!! :( If and when you decide to join a group whether you were invited or not ... do your research on them and find out exactly what their purpose really is!! :nod:
Good luck and have a great week!! :nod: :hug:s Lee :D
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
not very fair is it!!:(:( i think the next time i get declined i'm just going to leave the group.
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:iconharleezpix:
HarLeezPix Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Professional Photographer
Hi Marilyn!! :wave: "No" .. it's not fair at all because that is NOT what groups are supposed to be about especially on a site like this!! :no: DA is directly responsible for even introducing groups on here as they didn't exist before!! :no: However, I honestly believe that their primary directive at the time was for groups to help others on here to get better through advice and encouragement with regards to specific genres!! :nod: Well, it seems that it now provides a means for people to hurt others now as it becomes more about the people instead of the work!! :( This is a shame and the reason I remain to stay away from them for the most part!! :nod: Again though ... let me stress the fact that they are not ALL like this as I know some people on here that truly are hard-working and dedicated to helping others to succeed as I discuss this issue with them!! :nod: So as I said, the trick is finding a group that is more about helping than hindering and you will have to seek this out for your own particular use and satisfaction!! :nod: In closing, may I ask if this group(s) gave you reasons for the rejection?? :confused:
Anyway, please take care and don't over-react to this problem as it's been around for a lot of people and just do more research investigating groups to your liking!! :nod:
Many :hug:s !! Lee :D
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
thanks for the advice my dear friend!!! i am in some great groups that the people are just great!! and no they never did tell me why my shot was declined!..i told someone that the next time i get declined i'm just going to leave the group. love and hugs to you and Sandy!!
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:iconharleezpix:
HarLeezPix Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Professional Photographer
You are very welcome Marilyn!! :) I'm sure that you are in some wonderful groups ... concentrate on them!! :nod: You weren't given a reason because there wasn't one!! :no: That right there should give you some indication of what kind of group you are dealing with!! :( When that happened to me under the same conditions ... I left immediately!! :nod:
Thanks for everything and I send all of this right back to you for sure ... take care!! :hug:s Lee
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
again, thanks Lee...if this happens again i'll definately leave!!!
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:iconharleezpix:
HarLeezPix Featured By Owner Apr 30, 2013  Professional Photographer
You are most certainly welcome Marilyn and I would hope that you do!! :pray: :huggle: Lee :D
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner May 4, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
i will!!! :hug:
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Yiskah-chan Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Physio? What's that exactly I probably know but don't know it. And I don't like groups like that. The one I think we are both a part of really uppity group have rejected a lot of my photos so I don't even bother. Didn't they give you a reason? Sometimes they give me one...like its to bright. It's a flower!!! How can it not be bright? Stupid!
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BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
physio..for me, they showed me exercises to strenthen and stretch muscles affected by pain..this time though, i want acupuncture since exercises and the other stuff they did didnt work..wish me luck!!!
as for the groups, i left messages saying i had over 100 views and over 60 faves..whats the problem..no answer..really pisses me off!!
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Yiskah-chan Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
I hope everything works out well. You'll have to let me how acupuncture works for ya. I don't know anyone that's used it yet...my aunt might have but I can't recall off hand. lol.
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
thanks hon,i appreciate it! i'll let you know how it goes!! :hug:s
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:iconyiskah-chan:
Yiskah-chan Featured By Owner Apr 21, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Good. THanks!
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
:nod: i start acupuncture this wed..cant wait!
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:iconyiskah-chan:
Yiskah-chan Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Hope it goes well!
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
me too!! i start tomorrow!! yesterday was just asking questions...
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gigi50 Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
:iconbighugplza::iconbighugplzb: OH I hope they can help you feel better :iconcomfortplz:
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
me too!! i tried everything else!!!:icontigerglomp1plz::icontigerglomp2plz:
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Stilleschrei Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
:) Hope things work out for you well!
Yeah, groups... Some people judging the works only go for the very best and everything not perfect to their standarts gets declined. I think the shot is good, they probably felt it was over exposed?
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
thanks my friend!!!

i dont know..i left a message..still no answer!
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:iconstilleschrei:
Stilleschrei Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
:) I have a new tacktic with groups, I submit them, and delete all mesages and never actually look wether their accepted or not...
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
maybe thats what i should do!!
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:iconstilleschrei:
Stilleschrei Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
:nod: Don't worry, be happy :D
If a group declines you to often, you should leave them... No match!
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 19, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
i have done that before!!!
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:iconstilleschrei:
Stilleschrei Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
:hug: Do it again if they annoy you... We should have fun here...
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 21, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
oh i will!!!:hug:
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crazygardener Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013
Sweet!! i hope this will cure U & make U pain free!

as for the pic, its beautiful. who cares about those groups! they are just a waste of time....
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BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
thanks my friend,i hope it works too!!

as for the groups, i like them..its just that sometimes they piss me off when i submit a real good picture and they decline it and when you go through their gallery..you try and figure out why was that not declined?
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crazygardener Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013
your so welcome. :rose:

yup...
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Tigles1Artistry Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013
I am happy to hear you may finally be getting good treatment my dearest...
I wish you best of luck...
As for the photo....I really cannot imagine why it was declined...:no::heart:
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:iconblueivyviolet:
BlueIvyViolet Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
thanks so much my sweet friend!! :hug:ssss
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