I was just thinking aloud with a friend of mine and I want to know what other people think about this...Ok, I would like to assume that being a gay male means you like other men right? So why is it that some guys go out of their way to be feminine and act as much like a woman as they possibly can? Furthermore, why do other gay males find this to be attractive if they supposedly like men?Myself, I prefer a big man, someone with some pudge or a big ol' belly, a bit of hair on them, and an overall gruff appearance. Ya know, something 'Manly'. But thats just me...what are your thoughts?-Wolfgang "Thinking aloud" Wolfe