I only ever post journals anymore when I'm doing memes. I'm so sorry. It's all I know.
1. what’s your gender?
2. what are your pronouns?
3. is your family accepting?
Mostly, yeah. My mom doesn't really think Asexuality is real, but she tries to be understanding.
4. what do you wish you could tell your past self?
"You're not straight. At all. Boys don't even need to be on your radar. It'll save you some grief."
5. what is your sexuality?
Aromantic Asexual with some kind of lesbianism mixed in there.
6. favorite color?
Orange or reddish-purple.
7. sun gay or moon gay?
Sun, I guess?
8. when did you find out your sexuality?
Uhh...I have trouble remembering. I wanna say I discovered I was Ace and liked girls...somewhere around 2013-2014??
And then I identified as Homoromantic Asexual until late last year, when I realized I'm Aro.
9. how was your day?
My day's barely started, but it's been alright so far. Probably gonna play some games or something.
10. do you have any gay friends?
ALL of my friends are queer.
11. what’s your favorite hobby?
Watching other people play DnD. Or thinking about my ocs.
12. who’s the best gay icon in your opinion?
Hm...I don't know if she's an "icon" exactly, but I really love Stephanie Beatriz.
13. which pride flags do you like the most design/color wise?
The Ace flag is really pretty. I've also really come to like the Aro flag too. And the lesbian flag is beautiful. So...all of the things I identify with, lmao.
As for ones not related to me, I like the non-binary flag. With the purple and yellow.
14. are you openly out?
Online, yes. Except for facebook.
Offline, to my family. Not my extended family, though.
15. are you comfortable with yourself?
I'm...mostly there. I definitely was when I identified as Homo-Ace. Still getting used to the Aro part, but I'm feeling better about it than I was at first.
16. bottom or top?
17. femme or butch?
Kind of in between, but leaning more toward femme, I guess?
18. do you bind?
19. do you shave?
Not as often as society probably thinks I should, but yes.
20. if you could date anyone you wanted, who would it be?
Do ocs count? I'd date my oc Lucy. She's also Ace and a total sweetheart.
21. do you have a partner (s)?
22. describe your partner (s)?
23. have you ever dated anyone of the same sex?
24. anyone of another sex?
Ehh...if you count something that lasted less than a week, then yes.
25. pastel gay or goth gay?
Uhh. Goth gay, I guess.
26. favorite dad in dream daddies?
27. tell me a random fact about yourself?
I can never think of anything when I'm asked this. Uhh...
I barely ever drink water. Instead I practically live off of iced tea.
28. do you own any pride flags/merch?
I've got a couple of Ace things. A shirt and some buttons. When I have money I might look into something Aro related, too.
29. have you ever been to a pride parade?
Nah. I've seen way too much Ace/Aro gatekeeping to feel comfortable going somewhere like that.
30. any advice to someone who isn’t out or who is exploring themselves?
If you don't feel comfortable telling someone who you are, then don't tell them. Especially if you know that they aren't going to be accepting. Instead, find people who WILL accept you. They're more important.