Its not you, its me...
I am sick of watching people get into relationships, and then get hurt because one or the other were not the "right person". I am especially saddened when it is between people who say they are following Jesus Christ. It makes me feel sick inside, because obviously they aren't following Him. Its as simple as that.
There is no "right person" and anyone who enters into a relationship thinking that is ever the case has doomed the relationship from the beginning because they are in for disappointment. We all hide behind masks of success, beauty, charisma etc when really we are all, at best, broken images of any of these things longing for satisfaction. People are always going to disappoint you; noone will ever be right for you.
Saying that a relationship isn't working actually say that one or the other parties does not want to put in the effort to make it work, and that is just complete selfishness, considering the whole point of a relationship is mutual benefit. For a Christian, it goes be