Happy Early Birthday, Latoya.
If that "Miscarriage" story is about something that's happened to you, my sincerest condolences- I haven't words that'll say how sorry I am that could happen, nor about the rage towards those who, in their incredulous stupidity, disobeyed the simplest of directives and opened the doorway for that travesty to happen... men typically get enraged and are prone to go off and fight; I don't know about women, but I loved the message about an unborn baby being a child, and hence a pregnant woman already being a mom- totally and completely., sorry about your loss if it was yours. I don't know nor have the words to say to soothe the pain, but you have my support in your suffering, if that happened to you... and to all women who've suffered that, the same message goes out.
Sincerely hopeful to stand by you;
Adalack.