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Stop hating it by Akhnaton-II Stop hating it by Akhnaton-II
For those of you who doesn't know what it is: "Daddy Dom / Little Girl. DDLG, or dd/lg, is a relationship in which one person is the caregiver or "daddy" and the other is childlike. It is NOT a relationship between an actual father and daughter or any minor. This is a type of BDSM relationship that may or may not involve sex, but often involves play with child-like things, such as stuffed animals, bed-time stories, and spankings. The lg part of the relationship is often called the "little.""


People in such relationships did nothing bad. They hurt no one, committed no crimes, they just love each other and have fun. You might say you are allowed to hate a fetish, but hijacking #ddlg tag and filling it with your hate, personally attacking fetishists and telling them they are disgusting, and spreading misinformation about the kink (e.g. calling it child abuse) is very low and immature, and makes you look bad. Remember, lovers aren't disgusting, haters are. salmon heart bullet  
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:iconkissasheep:
Kissasheep Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
it does not support pedophilia
it sexualizes acting in a childish manner
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:iconmadeleine-me0ws:
Madeleine-Me0ws Featured By Owner Edited Dec 30, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I like the whole aesthetic (the cute pastel stuff) of it but as for being in a relationship it's not really my thing but it's cool with me if you want to have a ddlg/bdsm relationship just as long as no actual children are involved.
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MkayRose26 Featured By Owner Nov 15, 2018  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'll hate what I want to hate, that term is disturbing and I don't think I would ever be comfortable with it.
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:iconstarli-i:
starli-i Featured By Owner Oct 30, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
    nah
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:iconpoiygons:
poIygons Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2018  Student Digital Artist
fucking make me,, you paedophile
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Amanda4778 Featured By Owner Edited Aug 27, 2018  Hobbyist
If people hate something, that’s okay, and they’re entitled to their opinion. What isn’t okay is telling others to stop doing it just because you don’t like it, because the world doesn’t revolve around you. Telling people to stop liking/hating something if it’s okay for them to like/hate it is immature too.
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Fairiez4berriez Featured By Owner Edited Aug 21, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
Well I mean, people can hate the fetish if they want to, just not the people who have/participate in the fetish It's like the saying "Hate the sin, love the sinner", except with the fetish. As a (mostly) closeted AB/DL, I 100% approve, as long as it's with consenting adults. Screw the people who whine about them being "pedophiles" and "grooming kids" and refusing to listen to the truth. We like diapers, baby toys, bottles, pacifiers and stuff, not actual little kids!

EDIT: Oh, and a lot of people who do anything AB/DL or DD/LG or any variant DON'T do it purely for sexual things. Some do, but not ALL. Even if is IS always purely sexual, it still wouldn't be that bad. Why? Because there's still no actual CHILDREN involved!

Oh, and even my DAD found out about my interest, and he brought it up as a joke once a while ago, but he literally has zero problem with it. A full grown MAN can accept a person's fetish, AND still treat them like a person. THAT'S maturity. How hard is it to accept a fetish? If you can accept LGBT+, otherkin, other races, and even different interests, how hard is it to accept a fetish? People who openly say "PEOPLE WHO LIKE THIS STUFF ARE GROSS PEDOS EWWW!" are the pure reason why I kept my fetish a secret for over 3 years since I was 12 and I'm 16 now, and even then I don't talk about it too much.
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sawftie Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2018
damn shut up
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:iconskuiiie:
skuIIie Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2018
no
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:iconwiinqz:
wiinqz Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2018
THANK YOU. 
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:iconkinkysmolbean:
kinkysmolbean Featured By Owner Jun 28, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
THANK YOU ILY SO MUCH
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:iconjigsocks:
jigsocks Featured By Owner Jun 27, 2018
never
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hazelwolfmallark Featured By Owner Jun 5, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
For all people fighting in the comments
There is a differens between DDLG and pedophilia

many people use DDLG to cope with things that happened to them in the past 
many therapists actually recommend Age regression and having a caregiver 

pedopilia is the sexualization of children with children by adults

many in the DDLG community don’t have a sexual relationship while in little space 
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NekoGamerGirl Featured By Owner May 22, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
no
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POLYCHAETE Featured By Owner Apr 19, 2018
why is this such a big controversial topic still though you are all retarded and sound like fear mongering sex negative radfems or religious peopel shut up i swear to god
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ChametzKiwi Featured By Owner Mar 5, 2018
No
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racoonkinq Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2018
tbh what people do with their relationship is none of my business 

i guess if you wanna have a ddlg/bdsm relationship its chill. as long as both the people in the relationship are healthy and happy and consent to it then they can go for it

its not other people's jobs to police someone's love life
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howdylik Featured By Owner Jan 8, 2018  Student Traditional Artist
theres a crush fetish yet ppl are complaning about ddlg wtf
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:iconmadeleine-me0ws:
Madeleine-Me0ws Featured By Owner Dec 30, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm not trying to kinkshame but the crush fetish is the absolute worst of the worst.
also not trying to sound like a Peta fag but how would anyone think that crushing a small animal is acceptable in anyway shape or form

DDLG looks like a walk in the park compared to that shit
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:icontultsi93:
tultsi93 Featured By Owner Jan 10, 2018  Hobbyist Artist
Crush fetish? Eww, that's animal cruelty.
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:iconhowdylik:
howdylik Featured By Owner Jan 10, 2018  Student Traditional Artist
Ikr
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:iconaxris:
axris Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2018  Student General Artist
no.

sorry, but no. i'm not going to harass the community, but i'm not going to stop hating them, either. it's gross and sexualises children and childlike behaviours. 
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WyndTalker Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Actually, you are the one sexualizing children and child-like behaviours. Most of the people involved in any sort of DDlg or CGl relationships are NOT sexual. They may be sexual with each other, outside of the regression, but /rarely/ during. See, if you were to actually educate yourself about this stuff, it wouldn't bother you. Or honestly, you dislike it? Then why do you constantly read about it, comment about it, etc? Seems like you simply have an irrational desire to rip on it when it is supposed to be something you find undesirable. So why do you insist on commenting on everything regarding it? I'm genuinely curious as to why what someone else's kink, fetish or lifestyle bares such an impact on you? Are you actually having feelings or curiosities about the LS? Wanting to understand it better? Want to see people shamed and unhappy? Just a person who has nothing to live for but to be a random internet stranger commenting and complaining on anything for no real reason? Maybe you are a little yourself, or maybe you're a Mommy or Daddy who wants their own little? Maybe you enjoy being sexualized while regressed? Maybe you simply just come here to laugh at all the people who will never really give a crap about you? Because the fact is, no one cares about your opinion. You are simply a sheep in someone's flock, doing and saying crappy things to people because you feel so little for yourself. Perhaps you'd benefit from a visit to the psychiatrist and a new prescription. Whatever your reason, it's invalid to every one. No one cares.
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NekoGamerGirl Featured By Owner May 22, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Wynd, DDLG is a kink. A kink is defined as an unusual sexual preference. You don't know shit about the community you're defending. Regression is not DDLG, do not mix my coping mechanism with that "daddy's little slut" bullshit, thank you. 
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axris Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2018  Student General Artist
my kinks are transformation and tentacles, not children and childlike acts. that's disgusting and no amount of being a smug little shitstain is going to change that. 
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kinkysmolbean Featured By Owner Jun 28, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
riiight because your kink is "normal" too??
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:iconaxris:
axris Featured By Owner Jun 29, 2018  Student General Artist
not saying they're normal, but they don't sexualise children

checked your account, you're new and appear to be a troll account designed to only exist to give pansexual people a bad name by being a paedophilia apologist
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kinkysmolbean Featured By Owner Jun 29, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
giving pansexual people a bad name haha okay.. ddlg doesnt involve children in any way
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:iconaxris:
axris Featured By Owner Jun 29, 2018  Student General Artist
right, and your average suburban swimming pool doesn't have insane amounts of dihydrogen monoxide
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:iconkinkysmolbean:
kinkysmolbean Featured By Owner Edited Jun 30, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
"heheXD" as they say
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FluffyKyubey42 Featured By Owner Oct 4, 2017  Student
Yeah, let's all stop hating a kink that normalizes incest, pedophilia, childlike behaviors, and is full of people who are downright nasty to those who don't like it and expect everyone to be perfectly okay with it even if the people involved in said kink shove it in everyone's faces constantly.
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KittenPrince55 Featured By Owner Mar 8, 2018  Hobbyist Writer
wish i could like this comment,, it's so goddamn true. also they always think that children's stuff belong to them?? my best friend is an age regressor too and posted a selfie of herself with a pacifier in her mouth, and someone commented "lmao i thought you hated ddlg" 

yeah um pacifiers don't fucking belong to your nasty pedophilic kink sweetie,, just because someone is childlike that doesn't mean they like your gross kink, baby stuff doesn't inherently belong to you 
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FluffyKyubey42 Featured By Owner Mar 8, 2018  Student
Ugh, people need to realize that there is a huge difference between age regression and DDLG. I'm personally not into age regression but I don't mind if others are and I do know it can help cope with some trauma. DDLG, on the other hand, I cannot understand why someone would think it can help cope with trauma. Like, you were sexually taken advantage of a parental figure at a young age, why would you want to go through that again? Children are not physically or mentally ready for sex. And I know that these are adults, but one of them is roleplaying as a child and the other is pretending to have sex with a child. That is extremely f**ked up.
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Akhnaton-II Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Get over it.
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:iconfluffykyubey42:
FluffyKyubey42 Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2017  Student
Why should I have to?
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:iconakhnaton-ii:
Akhnaton-II Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Because your opinion is kinda gross and rude for a lot of people. 
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:iconaxris:
axris Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2018  Student General Artist
the trauma that CSA victims went through is going to always be worse than a few mean words said to paedophilia fetishists who don't know how to keep their damn kinks to themselves.
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MarchHareot Featured By Owner May 15, 2018  Student Digital Artist
A  lot of people in the cgl /ddlg community are victims of child abuse and sexual assault. DDLG and age regression  helps with coping with the trauma in a healthy way. 
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YepImHereNow Featured By Owner Edited Jan 4, 2018
Axris, I understand if the people who post their works, like art or fanfics or kinky stuff like that tag it with anything other than things that would be strictly associated with the kink (So people who make posts about it should only tag it with 'CG/L' and stuff like that, nothing that people who aren't interested would look up), then yea, that's kinda wrong, but if they're only tagging it with tags strictly related to the community, then nobody should see it unless they literally look it up for the single purpose of hating on it, which does not make those people the victim, and in those cases they're shoving it down their own throats. Anyways, yea, people should only tag it with strictly CG/L tags so people whom it may traumatize or offend don't see it, but other than that, as long as it's two consenting adults, who are we to judge? There's scientific evidence (Just look on Wikipedia for paraphilic infantilism) that it has no connections to pedophilia, and that it's the acute desire to take on a child like role with the partner, not the desire to actually have a child as a sexual partner. It has no direct links to pedophilia, and using an argument the creator proposed, saying that it's pedophilia is like saying that a gay couple that employs a feminization kink is heterosexual. Anyways, you've a right to express your opinion, but be mindful of the people. It's not exactly nice to be called a pedophile, one of the thinks that you associate as the worst kind of person and the absolute scum of the earth, more disgusting than anything. It's not a pedophilia kink, it's just a variation of BDSM to create a power system where one roll has more authority than the other, quite simple. It has nothing to do with pedophilia in terms of how it manifests, and people who partake in the kink have no desire to have a child for a sexual partner. They aren't pedophiles, simple as that. Yes, we should keep in mind the trauma of CSA victims and if they start seeing this left and right and begin feeling as if what they went through was normal, then yea, we've got a problem, but for the most part this community seems to stick to itself. People have entire conventions about furries, which are a group of people who enjoy (Sexually or not) dressing up as animals. The ones who do it sexually get aroused by the idea of sexual relations as a person dressed as an animal, but that doesn't mean that they want to commit bestiality, does it? How is it that furries aren't normalizing bestiality, yet littles are normalizing pedophilia? It seems like quite the double standard to me. Now, if they're allowed to have entire conventions based around dressing up as animals, don't you think that these people should be allowed to have their little space online? (Once again, if they use tags that people who don't want to see the kink might search up, then they're in the wrong and they need to reflect on their mistake and understand why it was wrong. In the end, we all just need to be mindful of each other's emotions and try to understand each other.
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Another-Realm Featured By Owner Mar 6, 2018
I didn't read everything, but I don't agree that it needs a strict tag. Finding something by mistake isn't forced. That's like saying everything around me is forced if it's a surprise. A lot of common relationships don't get tagged and yet, those are fine. Therefor, it should be the same for many safe and legal fetishes too. Forcing is like forcing someone against their will to look at it, using the internet means you are agreeing in a way that you will find random things.

As for pedophile, if it was pedophile reasons, at least in this case, consent is possible so I don't really care either way. Same with animals. If someone is attractive to animals, but wants to have fursuit sex as an alternative because it's better for them, then I don't see any problem at all...?
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tultsi93 Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2018  Hobbyist Artist
I can agree with you, YeplmHereNow. As an Atheist who got religious parenting, I find idea about CG/L and the whole BDSM uncomfortable (my mom thinks stuff like this are sinful), I'm still aware it isn't linked to pedophilia. That's like saying watching horror movies makes you a psychopath or if you're a North Korea hobbyist, you accept North Korean propaganda. Or, like you stated, furry community promotes bestiality. As a North Korea hobbyist and a horror movie fan myself, I would find that highly offensive, if someone came to say stuff like this to me.
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:iconaxris:
axris Featured By Owner Jan 5, 2018  Student General Artist
if you think that im going to read that enormous text wall defending paedophilia you've got another thing coming bucko
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YepImHereNow Featured By Owner Jan 5, 2018
Axris, and that's why you lose the argument. The fact that you refuse to read my argument just shows your stubbornness and ignorance, but let me summarize it for you. Paraphilic infantilism (Or CG/L) has nothing to do with pedophilia in terms of how it manifests, the difference being that paraphilic infantilists have a desire to take on a child like role, and pedophiles have a desire to have a child for a sexual partner. There, simple as that, it doesn't condone pedophilia and as long as it's tagged appropriately then you have no right to put these people down.
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FluffyKyubey42 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2017  Student
It’s true, though.
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deadstamps Featured By Owner Sep 12, 2017  Professional Digital Artist
no
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Pastelkittyprincess Featured By Owner Aug 31, 2017  Student Traditional Artist
I'd say many if not MOST littles in the CG/L community are actually using CG/L as a way of coping from past abuse.
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ColossalStinker Featured By Owner Aug 10, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Pedophilia or paedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children. - Wikipedia

Since no actual children are involved, DD/LG is not pedophilia. Dressing up and acting like a kid will not make an adult look like an actual kid. Like, boobs and curves are still there, etc...

If it reminds you of your trauma - just don't look at it, you can easily go to a different page. No one is forcing you to look at it and no one demands you to say what you think. No one gets hurt so nothing to complain about.
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Akhnaton-II Featured By Owner Aug 10, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Coincidentally, today I came up with this: "Anyways, I just found a good explanation why dd/lg is NOT pedophilia. If there are two gay guys, and one of them puts on a dress for roleplay, it doesn't turn the relationship hetero."
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LunarLemming Featured By Owner Jul 20, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
If it's adult and adult it is ok by me.
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PIASTlC-BEACH Featured By Owner Jul 13, 2017
All these edgy teens in the comments gave me a paper cut 
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