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Stop hating it
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Published: June 30, 2017
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For those of you who doesn't know what it is: "Daddy Dom / Little Girl. DDLG, or dd/lg, is a relationship in which one person is the caregiver or "daddy" and the other is childlike. It is NOT a relationship between an actual father and daughter or any minor. This is a type of BDSM relationship that may or may not involve sex, but often involves play with child-like things, such as stuffed animals, bed-time stories, and spankings. The lg part of the relationship is often called the "little.""


People in such relationships did nothing bad. They hurt no one, committed no crimes, they just love each other and have fun. You might say you are allowed to hate a fetish, but hijacking #ddlg tag and filling it with your hate, personally attacking fetishists and telling them they are disgusting, and spreading misinformation about the kink (e.g. calling it child abuse) is very low and immature, and makes you look bad. Remember, lovers aren't disgusting, haters are. salmon heart bullet  
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deadstamps's avatar
deadstamps|Hobbyist Digital Artist
this aged badly considering you got caught for possession of cp
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Stu-Pixels's avatar
Did they actually?? Not surprized but genuinely curious.
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deadstamps's avatar
deadstamps|Hobbyist Digital Artist
YES i think theyre in jail right now for possession of cp
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Stu-Pixels's avatar
That would explain why they said they'd be coming back but then dissapeared after February last year lol
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AimeePenguins's avatar
i'm perfectly fine with it as long as it's safe for work
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Kissasheep's avatar
Kissasheep|Hobbyist Digital Artist
it does not support pedophilia
it sexualizes acting in a childish manner
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Madeleine-Me0ws's avatar
Madeleine-Me0wsEdited |Hobbyist Digital Artist
I like the whole aesthetic (the cute pastel stuff) of it but as for being in a relationship it's not really my thing but it's cool with me if you want to have a ddlg/bdsm relationship just as long as no actual children are involved.
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MkayRose26|Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'll hate what I want to hate, that term is disturbing and I don't think I would ever be comfortable with it.
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starli-i's avatar
starli-i|Hobbyist Digital Artist
    nah
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poIygons's avatar
poIygons|Student Digital Artist
fucking make me,, you paedophile
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Amanda4778's avatar
If people hate something, that’s okay, and they’re entitled to their opinion. What isn’t okay is telling others to stop doing it just because you don’t like it, because the world doesn’t revolve around you. Telling people to stop liking/hating something if it’s okay for them to like/hate it is immature too.
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Fairiez4berriezEdited |Hobbyist General Artist
Well I mean, people can hate the fetish if they want to, just not the people who have/participate in the fetish It's like the saying "Hate the sin, love the sinner", except with the fetish. As a (mostly) closeted AB/DL, I 100% approve, as long as it's with consenting adults. Screw the people who whine about them being "pedophiles" and "grooming kids" and refusing to listen to the truth. We like diapers, baby toys, bottles, pacifiers and stuff, not actual little kids!

EDIT: Oh, and a lot of people who do anything AB/DL or DD/LG or any variant DON'T do it purely for sexual things. Some do, but not ALL. Even if is IS always purely sexual, it still wouldn't be that bad. Why? Because there's still no actual CHILDREN involved!

Oh, and even my DAD found out about my interest, and he brought it up as a joke once a while ago, but he literally has zero problem with it. A full grown MAN can accept a person's fetish, AND still treat them like a person. THAT'S maturity. How hard is it to accept a fetish? If you can accept LGBT+, otherkin, other races, and even different interests, how hard is it to accept a fetish? People who openly say "PEOPLE WHO LIKE THIS STUFF ARE GROSS PEDOS EWWW!" are the pure reason why I kept my fetish a secret for over 3 years since I was 12 and I'm 16 now, and even then I don't talk about it too much.
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sawftie's avatar
damn shut up
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wiinqz's avatar
THANK YOU. 
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kinkysmolbean|Hobbyist General Artist
THANK YOU ILY SO MUCH
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hazelwolfmallark|Hobbyist General Artist
For all people fighting in the comments
There is a differens between DDLG and pedophilia

many people use DDLG to cope with things that happened to them in the past 
many therapists actually recommend Age regression and having a caregiver 

pedopilia is the sexualization of children with children by adults

many in the DDLG community don’t have a sexual relationship while in little space 
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NekoGamerGirl|Hobbyist Digital Artist
no
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POLYCHAETE's avatar
why is this such a big controversial topic still though you are all retarded and sound like fear mongering sex negative radfems or religious peopel shut up i swear to god
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racoonkinq's avatar
tbh what people do with their relationship is none of my business 

i guess if you wanna have a ddlg/bdsm relationship its chill. as long as both the people in the relationship are healthy and happy and consent to it then they can go for it

its not other people's jobs to police someone's love life
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howdylik|Student Traditional Artist
theres a crush fetish yet ppl are complaning about ddlg wtf
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Madeleine-Me0ws's avatar
Madeleine-Me0ws|Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm not trying to kinkshame but the crush fetish is the absolute worst of the worst.
also not trying to sound like a Peta fag but how would anyone think that crushing a small animal is acceptable in anyway shape or form

DDLG looks like a walk in the park compared to that shit
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