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The Role of a Man and Woman in a relationship!

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Shalom! All praises to Ahayah[God] in the name of Yashiya/Yashaiya[Jesus] and Ruwach[Holy-Spirit] REPENT AND SEEK THE MOST HIGH AND YOU SHALL FIND


Isa_28:10 For precept must be upon precept, precept upon precept; line upon line, line upon line; here a little, and there a little:

Psa_119:104 Through thy precepts I get understanding: therefore I hate every false way.

*Deal with King James Version Bible ONLY"

*Have an OPEN mind. If you don't believe me, It's okay. Just do the RESEARCH for your self.

[A picture] How it suppose to be: [link]
Also The Most High Ahayah is above all!

The Men That Women Should Avoid: [link]

The Women That Men Should Avoid: [link]

P.S WOMEN when you pray make sure your head is COVERED!
Wear scarfs or something to cover the crown of your head.
{Just wondering how could the Jewish people over there to day be praying since the MEN heads suppose to be uncovered, while the WOMEN heads are covered! Just saying]

1 Corinthians 11:5-6 But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.
6 For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered.

Precept to 1 Corinthians 11:5:
Acts 21:9 And the same man had four daughters, virgins, which did prophesy.

Deuteronomy 21:12 Then thou shalt bring her home to thine house; and she shall shave her head, and pare her nails;

Precept to 1 Corinthians 11:6:
Numbers 5:18 And the priest shall set the woman before the Most High, and uncover the woman's head, and put the offering of memorial in her hands, which is the jealousy offering: and the priest shall have in his hand the bitter water that causeth the curse:

(In 1 Corinthians 11:6 we read that a women should cover her head (example: scarf), continue to read Numbers 5:18-31.)

P.S MEN when you pray make sure your head is UNCOVERED

1 Corinthians 11:4 Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head.

(Every man praying or prophesying with is head covered dishonoureth his head.)

1 Corinthians 11:7 For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of the Most High: but the woman is the glory of the man.

Precept to 1 Corinthians 11:7:
Genesis 1:26 And the Most High said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.

(As stated in the 1 Corinthians 11:7 men aren't to cover there head when they pray.)

*Brothers and Sisters, Husbands and Wives, Bachelors and Bachelorettes!


This note is in regards to relationships and understanding them according to the righteousness of scripture in these times. Here's some advice to BOTH men and women. And believe me, i'm speaking from experience. Try to Avoid sexual relationships (Remain single) unless the other party you are interested in, is in the TRUTH.
■What is TRUTH, you might ask?

Psalm 119:142 Thy righteousness is an everlasting righteousness, and thy law is the truth.

John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.

Rev 14:12 Here is the patience of the saints: here are they that keep the commandments of God, and the faith of Christ.
■So the law + Christ is TRUTH.

And if you are atractted to someone physically, then try their spirit to see if they are of The Most high. Follow your spirit and not your flesh! See what they understand according to scripture when it comes to a Man and Woman being together. See if they know their ROLE in a relationship!


Exo 22:16 And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.
■So according to righteousness, If you lay with a person, (of opposite sex Of course) Than that should be your spouse. So that person that you are having sex with today, you should take unto marriage and not depart from them or put them away.


Gen 24:67 And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death.
■The Most high is the Most important factor in a relationship and in life period. ALL things should evolve around his righteousness and our obedience. But this is not the case by far. People aren't establishing a "God Fearing " relationship. People don't test the knowledge of others to see if they are knowledgeable and worthy of being a good spouse. Instead people are lusting after one another and choosing to be with people for all the wrong reasons (I.E. Attraction, Money, loneliness or Gain).
■Things are so out of order because this world we live in is backwards and out of order. The reason for this is because We (Israel) have been stripped of our Laws, heritage, customs and traditions. We were/are CHOSEN by the Most High and given his laws. And we were/are supposed to show ALL nations how to serve and submit in righteouness to HIM. But because we were disobedient, things are out of order.

Let's see what the ORDER should be!


From the beginning The Most High set ORDER. He gave Adam the commandment Before Eve was even created. And he created the woman to be a HELP MEET to the MAN. The serpant deceived Eve first in order to entice Adam. And from this the most High gave ordinances.


Gen 2:17-18

17 But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die.

18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.


Gen 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
■So from this point on, the ORDER was for MAN to have RULE over his WIFE and her desires should be to her husband.
■This is SO very important to understand and abide by. A Women must accept this and with out this understanding, all ORDER will be unfurnished. If a woman desires to have authority over her Husband, than there is no order.
■These other nations have done a great job keeping things out of order. And because we fell as nation this would be as a curse to us, his people.

Deu 28:45-46

45 Moreover all these curses shall come upon thee, and shall pursue thee, and overtake thee, till thou be destroyed; because thou hearkenedst not unto the voice of the LORD thy God, to keep his commandments and his statutes which he commanded thee:

46 And they shall be upon thee for a sign and for a wonder, and upon thy seed for ever.


Deu 28:54 So that the man that is tender among you, and very delicate, his eye shall be evil toward his brother, and toward the wife of his bosom, and toward the remnant of his children which he shall leave:


Deu 28:56 The tender and delicate woman among you, which would not adventure to set the sole of her foot upon the ground for delicateness and tenderness, her eye shall be evil toward the husband of her bosom, and toward her son, and toward her daughter,


Isa 3:12 As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.


Jer 51:30 The mighty men of Babylon have forborn to fight, they have remained in their holds: their might hath failed; they became as women: they have burned her dwellingplaces; her bars are broken.


Isa 5:13 Therefore my people are gone into captivity, because they have no knowledge: and their honourable men are famished, and their multitude dried up with thirst.
■ So as you can see Men have become Weakened and women are ruling over them. This was a CURSE and a huge part of our captivity. During Slavery a man bythe named of Willie Lynch set out to turn the woman against the man and feminize the man and empower our women above us.

Today you see the feminest movement at it's height. It's all about a Idependent woman having pride in her independence.
■"Blacks" have a much higher divorce rate than "Whites".
■Almost 80% of black woman are single.
■And it's much easier these days for a Black woman to land a job than it is for a black man.

Do you think this is by Chance? NO it's not!!!

Let's continue !!!


Gen 1:28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply,

Gen 9:1 And God blessed Noah and his sons, and said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply,
■So it is the Most High will that we have children. But what's important to understand about this is that he told Adam and Eve to multiply before they disobeyed him. He told Noah and his sons to multiply because he chose him in his righteousness. So the Most High doesn't want a bunch of disobedient knuckle heads running around. He wants RIGHTEOUS men and women to produce righteous young men and women because he is righteous.

And obviously today there is not a whole lot of Righteousness going on in this world. And things are all out of order.


1 Corinthians 14:40 Let all things be done decently and in order.

1Cor 11:3,8-9

3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

8 For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man.

9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.


So, That's the ORDER!


And it's important that BOTH Man and Woman understand this before entering a relationship. Or maybe you shouldn't enter a relationship at all.


1 Cor 7:6-8

6 But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.

7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.

8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I.
■So Paul made it clear right hear that this was not a commandment given to him to give to us. This was just him speaking common sense as a minister of righteousness. But he was basically saying that he is unmarried and he finds it best if most people would remain unmarried as he was.
■Paul understood the curses and the times we were living in.

1 Cor 7:20 Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called.
■Paul was saying that the only thing that is important is to serve the Most high and abide in Christ. Everything else is not as important. So whether you be married or not when you come into this truth, the Most important thing should be to serve The Most high. PERIOD!

1Cor 7:24 Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.


1Cor 7:25-29

25 Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.

26 I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be.

27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.

28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.

29 But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;
■So again, Paul made it clear that this is not a commandment but his discernment concerning the Unmarried men and woman. He recognized and stated that there was DISTRESS and it was good to be unmarried during these times.
■He said if you are married don't look to be free and if you aren't married don't look to be married. But if you do marry, you haven't sinned. But he warned them that marrige brings troubles, for the time is short and if you are married be as though you weren't. He said this because of the FACT that......

1Cor 7:32-35

32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:

33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.

34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.

35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
■He was showing how those who are single would be less distracted in trying to please the most high. While on the other those who are married are distracted by their spouses worldily needs.
■Remember, these men and woman at this time were dealing with the curses just as we are today. Things were out of order then and now.

These scriptures that i have extracted from 1 Cor 7 thus far are mainly touching on the Unmarried. But now i will extract the rest concerning those who are married. lets get it!


1Cor 7:1-5

1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.

2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
■First off it's good for a man not to even touch a woman. Because through this comes lustful thoughts and interactions. So to avoid fornication all together, simply get married. But in reality it's just not that simple.
■Husbands should be kind to their wives and wives should be kind to their husbands. And they both have juristiction over one another's body. They shouldn't seperate themselves unless it be agreed to. Because through periods of seperation comes mistrust and situations where tempatation may set in. The more seperation, the more chances for adultery and fornication.


1Cor 7:10-11

10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:

11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
■So now we see that this is a COMMANDMENT (not just Paul's discernment) that the wife should not leave her husband. But if she does she cannot get married again and she should try and get her act together.
■Husbands, you cannot just put away your wife because you don't like her or for any 'ole reason. But if she commits adultery, that's a just cause and she has defiled herself, basically putting herself away.

1Cor 7:12-15

12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
■So He is making it clear that this is his righteous discerment. As long as a wife is pleased to dwell or be with her husband, he shouldn't put her away. And as long as a husband is pleased to be with his wife, she should not leave. Even if they don't have faith, you should not give up on them, but continue to love them. But if they want to leave, you can't force them to stay.

1Cor 7:39-40

39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.

40 But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.
■A wife is under the authority of her husband as long as he is a live. But if he dies, she can get another husband as long as he is a servant of Christ.
■But Paul recommends that she remains unmarried as he has discerned.

What is the wifes' role?

1Pe 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
■Wives are to be subject to their husbands. It says likewise because the husbands are to be subject to Christ. Remember the head of a man is Christ and the head of the woman is the Man. The head of Christ is The Most high (His Father) and Christ came to represent his father. A righteous man is suppsed to represent Christ and a virtuos wife should represent her husband.
■But don't loose sight of the fact that the world we are living in is Lawless and and out of order.

1Pe 3:3-4

3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;

4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
■We know how our sisters like to show off what they have and reveal it to everyone. Tight jeans, short skirts, cleavage bouncing. But our women are supposed to dress moderately and not flashy.
■And we know how our sisters get to rolling them eyes, necks and have too much to say sometimes. But a meek and quiet woman is pleasing to the Most High and to her husband.

1Pe 3:5-6

5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:

6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
■It's very rare to find a woman like this these days who understands her history, customs, heritage and wants to live by the word. Don't get me wrong, they are out there, but not many who aren't taken.

What is a Husbands' role?

1Pe 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
■Brothers we are supposed to be able to honor our women and the key thing is to dwell with them according to KNOWLEDGE. And in order to do that we have to get knowledge and understand it.
■They are the weaker vessel and more delicate and fragile than we are. And we can't lose sight of that. They are not slaves to us, they should by choice (not force) honor and be subject to us.

1Ti 5:8 But if (any) provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
■Remember brothers, we are supposed to dwell according to knowledge. And we are suppsed to provide knowledge and instruction to look after and before our families. This applies to woman as well. This applies to ANYONE who is in a responsible position.






From G4253 and G3539; to consider in advance, that is, look out for beforehand (active voice by way of maintenance for others; middle voice by way of circumspection for oneself): - provide (for).


Mat 5:4-9

4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,

5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?

8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.

9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
■Brothers we can't just put away our wives because we like another woman. We must be able to LOVE the both of them. But if she commits adultery, she has put her self away.
■A wife should not forsake her husband, but a man who forsakes his wife or anyone for Christ's sake will be blessed.

Nothing should come between a man's head, which is Christ. Nothing should come between a womans head which is her husband.
■The Disciples had to forsake what they had to follow Christ. And in these times there is no room for excuses not to follow Christ and the law.

Luke 14:7,17-20,33

7 And he put forth a parable to those which were bidden, when he marked how they chose out the chief rooms; saying unto them.

17 And sent his servant at supper time to say to them that were bidden, Come; for all things are now ready.

18 And they all with one consent began to make excuse. The first said unto him, I have bought a piece of ground, and I must needs go and see it: I pray thee have me excused.

19 And another said, I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I go to prove them: I pray thee have me excused.

20 And another said, I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come.

33 So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple.


Matthew 19:27-29

27 Then answered Peter and said unto him, Behold, we have forsaken all, and followed thee; what shall we have therefore?

28 And Jesus said unto them, Verily I say unto you, That ye which have followed me, in the regeneration when the Son of man shall sit in the throne of his glory, ye also shall sit upon twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel.

29 And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.
■Notice that you don't see the word Husband mentioned here. Because a woman shouldn't forsake her head. She is abiding in Christ by abiding by her husband who is abiding in Christ.

The Children


Matthew 19:14 But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven.


Ephesians 6:4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.


Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.


Psalm 127:3 Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.


Psalm 78:1-8

1 Give ear, O my people, to my law: incline your ears to the words of my mouth.

2 I will open my mouth in a parable: I will utter dark sayings of old:

3 Which we have heard and known, and our fathers have told us.

4 We will not hide them from their children, shewing to the generation to come the praises of the LORD, and his strength, and his wonderful works that he hath done.

5 For he established a testimony in Jacob, and appointed a law in Israel, which he commanded our fathers, that they should make them known to their children:

6 That the generation to come might know them, even the children which should be born; who should arise and declare them to their children:

7 That they might set their hope in God, and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments:

8 And might not be as their fathers, a stubborn and rebellious generation; a generation that set not their heart aright, and whose spirit was not stedfast with God.


Hebrews 13:4-5,7,17

4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

5 Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.

7 Remember them which have the rule over you, who have spoken unto you the word of God: whose faith follow, considering the end of their conversation.

17 Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you.


Col 3:18-19

18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.

19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.


Tit 2:2-5

2 That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience.

3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;

4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.


Eph 5:22-28,31,33

22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.


Eph 5:31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.

Eph 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.


The First thing is to establish that if The Most high is not the focal point of the relationship then there is no living relationship. It will be a dead sinking ship. Where there is no order there is Chaos.


Secondly is to establish order and hearken to this order. It is almost impossible for a husband to love his wife if his wife is not in subjection and out of order. This is NATURAL reaction. It's imposible for a woman to be subject if she doesn't understand the importance of her role. Her role is very vital and it's up to the husband to recognize and love his wife who is subject to him.


Of course things are easier said then done. So it's going to take some compromising and patience from both men and woman. But the Man isn't the one who is subject to his wife, so he shouldn't have to compromise in that area. But at the end of the he made the choice to be with this woman and he should see to it that he shows her appreciation and gratitude frequently. But the wife must recognize the when her husband is grateful and let him be a MAN, not a teddy bear.


Woman let your man be as a MAN and win him with your conversation and support. Men let your woman be a WOMAN and see to it that she understands what is expected of the BOTH of you in the relationship, and BE A MAN.


A man doesn't have to bring home the most money. And a woman may have to actually work if her husband is hard up trying to find a job. Either way this does not define a man or a woman. A man should decide and establish how he wants his household to be in order and have the control and respect to make descisions. This should ALL be set and established before SEX! Because when you have sex with a person, you have made an agreement to be with them.


Communication is the KEY and Christ is the DOOR!


Shalam and may the Most High Bless you and yours!
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