For anyone, who's family harps on them for, not being the perfect flawless child / cousin / whatever they wanted.
Yes, my family does that to me, they harp on me for having friend that are a lot younger than me, they bitched and moaned when some dumbass fuckhead, decided it was going to be funny to tell a friend of the family that I was having sex with my 14 1/2 year old friend, and all my family could say was, "How embarrassing to the family this is.", and I said, "Who cares if Riza goes to jail over a stupid rumor that's not ever true, when we have the family's cock to suck."
My grandmother was angry at me, when I told her I wasn't a virgin (I had a friend with benefits) and she was going on how I'm not mature enough for sex, and that the reason she was mature at 18, is because she was married, (May I also state that she married at 16, had a son at 17, divorced the guy, remarried, and had another son at 19, and her last child (my mom) at 24.) how stupid I was for having unprotected sex, and how embarrassed she was that I had to go get tested for pregnancy and STD's (both came back negative).
They also go one how I'm not as good as my, 'perfect, better and more important' cousin Shelby. May I remind you that she is 28, of course she's going to be more mature than me
And before I changed my name to 'Riza' (via legal name change) I was named after a friend of their's that passed away before I was born (her name was Lavonja). I was teased in school because of the name, and my family basically wanted me to be a complete copy of their friend, and my dad even told me, "You could be a Lavonja, if you tried."
They also hate my sense of humor, because it's not clean or mature
And hear's another thing, I'M NOT ETHER OF THEM! I am my own person, not a copy or a remake! I am not perfect, Get the fuck over it. You cannot tell how a person is going to be at birth. You cannot force a person to be something they are not and don't want to be.
*Sigh* Sorry for the long ass rant, I didn't intend on this description being this long.
Dear family series [link]