This was going to be a rant...Somehow, I ended up on a site called SoSuave.com. It's a dating website, with tips for men to pick up women. Sounds innocuous enough, right?
It is filled with such gems as~:
"How and Why Women Test You
Have you ever called a woman on the phone to set up a date and had her say: "Friday night? Sure. Call me on Friday and we can talk about it..."?
Or have you ever had a woman ask you if you're a player?
Or have you ever asked a woman for her number and had her say "Why don't you give me your number and I'll call YOU"?
Well guess what... you were being tested. At some level, the woman you were dealing with was testing to see how much control she had in the relationship.
The paradox of "testing" is that if you COMPLY with what a woman SEEMS to want, you will usually FAIL the test.
Hey, I never said that it made sense."
"You NEVER want to be in a position of waiting for a woman's call or leaving it up to her to call you. [...] If a woman is uncertain about when she is available, instead of s